Cheating...

If your SO/DH/whatever confessed that they cheated on you at some point in your relationship would you want to know the details?

Because DH and I are weird this came up in one of our "what if..." scenarios tonight.  

Yea, I'm way too curious for my own good.

my daughters father did
all i wanted to know was why , and he couldnt answer lol

Yes, If we were going to stay together I would need to know the details. A relationship can't move on without full disclosure.

Quoting Im watching you:" my daughters father did all i wanted to know was why , and he couldnt answer lol"

In his defense...what could he have said "Because I'm a stupid smurfing idiot"? 

Quoting RonniG:" Yes, If we were going to stay together I would need to know the details. A relationship can't move on without full disclosure. "

And if you weren't? I feel like I would want to know either way. I would need that closure for either path, I'd think.

Quoting 624582:" And if you weren't? I feel like I would want to know either way. I would need that closure for either path, I'd think."

If I didn't care enough to stay in the relationship then smurf it. I don't need to know.

He would have to tell me everything!

It would probably make me feel worse knowing the details but yes I would want to know.

What positions? How was it? Was she hot? Were her boobs big? Lol I'd be asking everything! Id be upset but whatever.

I'd be curious but I don't know if I'd ask. Cheating is grounds for automatic divorce. If he wanted to smurf someone, I'd seriously he rather tell me ahead of time than cheat.

yeah i knew the girl but i made him give me details even tho he didnt want to talk about it. it was really hard to deal with and i still have some issues with it.

Quoting 624582:" If your SO/DH/whatever confessed that they cheated on you at some point in your relationship would you ... [snip!] ... you want to know the details? Because DH and I are weird this came up in one of our "what if..." scenarios tonight.  "

I didn't have to ask. I walked in on it.

No. this baby's dad cheated on me. that's all I need to or care to know.

Yeah, so I could decide if i'd be able to forgive him or not. Although I doubt I'd ever really be able to stay in the relationship if he cheated (I'm pretty insecure and jealous as it is, I'd probably go mad, it'd be no fun for anyone) it'd be easier to stay friends (for the sake of our child, more than anything) if it was just a drunken mistake or something like that.