Quoting RonniG:" Ever said something and then thought, "Oh smurf, I totally just put my foot in my mouth." Maybe she had ... [snip!] ... had one of those moments. If you don't hear anything more about it then I don't think it's worth ending your friendship over."
Yea I wasn't planning on it... but DH is pissed... I think its partially cuz he already hates her and just gets along with her for her husband (his fraternity brother and one of his really close friends) and partially cuz he's just sick of her always butting into everyone else's business