Is it wrong of me???

I live my aunt in her parents house which I consider my grandparents.btw the house is not my aunts or uncles!. I heard my uncle tonight say god damnt I asked him hey could you just try not to say that around me. And I got in this huge arguemnt with my aunt how thats disrescpetful of me asking that when it isnt my house , and so on and so forth...and that I am shoving my christian views in there face .. they dont have a relgion which I respect but I just dont see the big deal of me asking that of him , if I am wrong can someone tell me and I will go and appologize to her.

yeah i would probably think you could mind your own on this one. if its offensive, leave the room.


if he doesnt have a religion why would he get defensive if you asked him not to have his non existant god condemn things? lol....
he is rude too but its not really your place i would think. but i guess it also depends on your relationship with all involved.

Eh....Do you pay any of the bills there? If yes, then you have every right to ask him not to. If not, then I would say it's his house, his rules.

Quoting cunning cuniculi:" yeah i would probably think you could mind your own on this one. if its offensive, leave the room. ... [snip!] ... is rude too but its not really your place i would think. but i guess it also depends on your relationship with all involved. "

 

Yes, it's wrong. Unless your name is on a lease or a deed and have some sort of entitlement to the property, you don't have the entitlement to ask people how to talk in their own homes. I may get crap for that but its a respect your elders type of thing, for me. Even if I don't agree with what they say or do, I show them respect in their homes.

Quoting Minion:" Eh....Do you pay any of the bills there? If yes, then you have every right to ask him not to. If not, then I would say it's his house, his rules."

Yes I pay 400 a month ..for bills , rent water etc

Quoting cunning cuniculi:" yeah i would probably think you could mind your own on this one. if its offensive, leave the room. ... [snip!] ... is rude too but its not really your place i would think. but i guess it also depends on your relationship with all involved. "

I see what your saying thank u   !!

It's HIS home... even if you pay bills, he's an adult and you have no place to tell him wht he can or should not say. I mean out of respect for your children, but again it's his home.

Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" It's HIS home... even if you pay bills, he's an adult and you have no place to tell him wht he can or should not say. I mean out of respect for your children, but again it's his home."

Its actually not his home its my grandparents home... I guess I should of specified that

Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" It's HIS home... even if you pay bills, he's an adult and you have no place to tell him wht he can or should not say. I mean out of respect for your children, but again it's his home."

and my grandparents are actually relgoous people

Quoting Noah_Jeffery:" Its actually not his home its my grandparents home... I guess I should of specified that"

Are they alive, well, and in the home?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Noah_Jeffery:</b>" Its actually not his home its my grandparents home... I guess I should of specified that"</blockquote>




I mean I get where you're coming from, but I would have left it alone. If it was your house.. but it's not.

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" Are they alive, well, and in the home?"

Yes they are   and they pay the mayjoirty of the bills my uncle doesnt even have a job or contribute in the bills

Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Noah_Jeffery:</b>" Its actually not his home its my grandparents ... [snip!] ... I mean I get where you're coming from, but I would have left it alone. If it was your house.. but it's not."

Ya i see what your saying ... I guess it jst twirked me becuase they have been really over bearing with being right and stuf latley so myave i took this a little to far .. but they are getting on my nerves haha

Quoting Noah_Jeffery:" Yes they are   and they pay the mayjoirty of the bills my uncle doesnt even have a job or contribute in the bills"

Then they can tell him not to say that in their home, you can not.