Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" I'm guess I'm really not upset about ... [snip!] ... people and learn to like each other. My sil and I did that. I never would have thought that was 14 years ago we'd be friends."
I was just talking to DH about something similar. It's like how much longer do we have to deal with her doing these things to us? When will it stop? Will she ever change? Maybe I will too.
The things she did to me in the first 2 years, I've been able to 90% let those goes.
Alienating my child, even to the point where she won't take her kids to my MIL's when he's there or knows he's going to be there, that, I'm still not there.
Like I said there's so much more to this situation.
Now I've broken down to tears. This is going to come back to me, how I'm the bad guy.
Like when she got pregnant last time and it wasn't planned. So to shift the blame from our MIL being upset with them because they can't really take on another child, she officially told our MIL that my husband "forced" me to get pregnant and that our 3rd child was all DH's idea.
So we had to endure 2 weeks of pure torture from my MIL until I set the record straight. It's like how did she even know to say something like? Way to go!
I'm trying I really am. I think I'm finally at my breaking point. I may just not care anymore.