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I'm not even going to lie, I think it is strange in a way that you are in two relationships at the same time. I consider it cheating personally. However that is not the topic, if you want to cut your moms phone off do it. She's not paying for it you are. Stop loaning her money. It's simple.

if you told your mom, would your gf get fired?

Quoting I'm Marbles:" I'm not even going to lie, I think it is strange in a way that you are in two relationships at the same ... [snip!] ... the topic, if you want to cut your moms phone off do it. She's not paying for it you are. Stop loaning her money. It's simple."

This.

Just because you are bisexual, doesnt mean you need to have both partners if you are married. That is probably the reason why your mother feels the way she does.

Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:" if you told your mom, would your gf get fired?"

im not sure, shes at the point where she wants to quit because of how my mom is, or atleast transfer to day shift but i told her not to because shes not there to be friends with anybody shes there to work and make her own money

Everyone is different, lol. Maybe they are perfectly happy being in an open relationship. Who smurfing cares.

Quoting I'm Marbles:" I'm not even going to lie, I think it is strange in a way that you are in two relationships at the same ... [snip!] ... the topic, if you want to cut your moms phone off do it. She's not paying for it you are. Stop loaning her money. It's simple."

I agree with you. I couldn't morally do this. But what I think isn't the topic.

Stop loaning your mom money, OP. You don't HAVE to keep her phone going.

Quoting Mommy To Lexyss & Kyleigh:" im not sure, shes at the point where she wants to quit because of how my mom is, or atleast transfer ... [snip!] ... to day shift but i told her not to because shes not there to be friends with anybody shes there to work and make her own money"

maybe that would be a good idea though? so she wouldn't have to deal w/ your mom's crap... & then you could just be open w/ your mom & tell her. if she freaks out & really wants to disown you, then that's messed up... guess you'd stop paying her cell phone then, lol

I'm pansexual and in a common-law marriage, but we're monogamous and I don't date other men or women or genderqueer folks. That being said, I'm really sorry your mom is so homophobic, it's not okay that you have to live a lie because she's filled with hate. Coming out is a really individual and delicate process. At the end of the day there is no right or wrong way of doing it, you just do what you have to do to live your life happily. If you ever need support with coming out feel free to pm me.