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I need a spine..

posted 24th Feb
I just wanna go off on DH's bipolar, womanizing grandpa. Like seriously. But I'm too much of a puss. If DH would just CALL him amd explain what's going on he'd calm down amd leave us alone with enough time to get the hell outta here. But the situation pisses DH off (does me also but I handle anger differently) and he's afraid, knowing how his grandpa is, that he'll end up going off on him and making things worse. NO! What's making it worse is ignoring his calls. I refuse to talk to the abusive ass man when he called me a lazy, worthless bitch three weeks after giving birth, all because DH's phone didn't have service and he thought he was being ignored. (Oh and the house was presentably clean at that time  ) And he claims he's suchhhh a perfect Christian. Yeah, Christians don't judge others, don't belittle others, and they sure as hell don't abuse and kill their wives. (That's another story). Ugh I just wished he'd call him so he'd shut up and won't show up unexpectedly while DH is at work. Then I have to deal with him by myself with a seven month old and won't have a vehicle to get away in. I hate living here. I hate having to deal with this crazy ass old man. And I hate pissing DH off by nagging him to do something he doesn't want to do. But ugh! I can't handle this. I pray to God that we get that house. If we don't, I'm not sure what'll happen. I may leave on my own. I don't know. My head hurts from all of this.


Vent over...
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I have 1 child & live in Crawfordsville, Indiana
posted 24th Feb
Well I'd give you my spine, but my daughter is currently sitting on it   Seriously though, he sounds like someone you need to cut out of your life. I wouldnt put up with that smurf.
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I have 2 kids & live in North Highlands, California
posted 24th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" Well I'd give you my spine, but my daughter is currently sitting on it   Seriously though, he sounds like someone you need to cut out of your life. I wouldnt put up with that smurf."</blockquote>




That's what we're trying to do, but to do that we have to move out of his house, leave that stupid truck here since it's not really DH's anyways  , and change our damn numbers. He'll probably try to legally come after us for that truck, but there's nothing he can do. He offered to help buy DH a vehicle, and he wanted this older 90s pickup for cheap, but noooooo grandpa said he had to get this newer (overpriced POS) truck and said he would be secondary owner on the title and primary driver on the insurance. Turns out he's not on the title and has been driving uninsured for 18 months. And when grandpa dies the truck goes to FIL amd his sister. So we've been paying for a truck we can't afford that's not even really ours. Ugh.
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I have 1 child & live in Crawfordsville, Indiana
posted 24th Feb
Yikes!! I hope you get your house too...that man sounds like a nutcase!
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Massachusetts
posted 24th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting The Blissful Six:</b>" Yikes!! I hope you get your house too...that man sounds like a nutcase!"</blockquote>




Thank you I hope so too. We'll be 20 miles away and we won't be telling grandpa or FIL (since he likes to tell grandpa everything we do) our address. We're cutting all ties. I'm so anxious. We met with the landlord today and it sounded hopeful. We just have to wait until she calls back this week to let us know if we got it or not.
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I have 1 child & live in Crawfordsville, Indiana
posted 25th Feb
Quoting *Duhhh-nita*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Blissful Six:</b>" Yikes!! I hope you get your house too...that ... [snip!] ... landlord today and it sounded hopeful. We just have to wait until she calls back this week to let us know if we got it or not."

My MIL is a bit nuts, but thankfully she's mad at us right now so she doesn't bother with us anymore.
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Massachusetts
posted 25th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting The Blissful Six:</b>" My MIL is a bit nuts, but thankfully she's mad at us right now so she doesn't bother with us anymore."</blockquote>


I wish grandpa would ignore us when he's mad, but he's the total opposite LOL ugh. He was calling again a little bit ago. DH FINALLYYYYY said he's calling him back once he gets to work where he gets better service.
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I have 1 child & live in Crawfordsville, Indiana
posted 25th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting *Duhhh-nita*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Blissful Six:</b>" My MIL is a bit nuts, but thankfully ... [snip!] ... calling again a little bit ago. DH FINALLYYYYY said he's calling him back once he gets to work where he gets better service."</blockquote>




Good, maybe he'll leave you all alone for awhile.
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Massachusetts
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