SO back for the first time in almost 3 months

And I can't think of anything other than him leaving again. He has been working out of state for 4 months. I want to be happy and enjoy my time with him but it feels like a tease. I'm so sad and keep getting upset. I don't know when the next time I will see him again.

I am sorry   How long is he home for?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Piecey.:</b>" I am sorry   How long is he home for?"</blockquote>




Three days. He leaves tomorrow.

Quoting ThreeLittleBirds:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Piecey.:</b>" I am sorry   How long is he home for?"</blockquote> Three days. He leaves tomorrow."

I am so sorry. I know it's tough. Get off here and go enjoy your husband!  

If it's effecting the relationship, it's best to end it and what's a relationship anyways if you're not able to BE with that partner and enjoy spending time with them? DH was working 60-70 hour weeks when I was pregnant. I asked him to quit the OT because it was effecting us...I was about to go.

It sucks, but just be glad he'll be safe. My SO is deploying and all I can do is hope for him to come back.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" It sucks, but just be glad he'll be safe. My SO is deploying and all I can do is hope for him to come back."</blockquote>



Oh believe me I wouldn't compare my situation to yours. I can't imagine how you feel.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ThreeLittleBirds:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" It sucks, but just be glad he'll be safe. ... [snip!] ... him to come back."</blockquote> Oh believe me I wouldn't compare my situation to yours. I can't imagine how you feel."</blockquote>



So how are you doing now? I'm going to hope you ignored that you need to end it advice,

<blockquote><b>Quoting Piecey.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ThreeLittleBirds:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" ... [snip!] ... how you feel."</blockquote> So how are you doing now? I'm going to hope you ignored that you need to end it advice,"</blockquote>




Yea I don't listen to negativity like thay. I still feel pretty sad. But were closer than ever to having him back for good so I'm hopeful. Thanks for your comments. I.appreciate them.

Quoting ThreeLittleBirds:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" It sucks, but just be glad he'll be safe. ... [snip!] ... him to come back."</blockquote> Oh believe me I wouldn't compare my situation to yours. I can't imagine how you feel."

Any distance sucks though! It either brings you closer together, or further apart.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" Any distance sucks though! It either brings you closer together, or further apart."</blockquote>




That's exactly how I look at it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" Any distance sucks though! It either brings you closer together, or further apart."</blockquote>




That's exactly how I look at it.