prego girlfriend

Ummmm yeah!? WTF? I was willing to offer advice until you mentioned giving her the abortion pill against her will, the ultimatum for abotion and the wire coat hanger. What she does with the baby is not your choice in the least. Plain and simple.

Quoting Mama Rice:" Ummmm yeah!? WTF? I was willing to offer advice until you mentioned giving her the abortion pill against ... [snip!] ... ultimatum for abotion and the wire coat hanger. What she does with the baby is not your choice in the least. Plain and simple."

Troll is what this is.

Quoting raining:" Hi, I am new to this forum. I have two beautiful boys. I am currently facing a dillema. My girlfriend ... [snip!] ... i will continue to take care of the kids i do have all ready. or should I use the old fashion wire hanger? (That was a joke)"

Please do not give her the abortion pill without her knowing. That is extremely cruel. Have you thought about talking to her about it?

First of all, bad joke lol

I really think it would be crappy of you to give her the pill behind her back. This is a decision the two of you need to be making together, and that is basically you forcing her into a corner. I would sit her down, preferably after the kids are asleep or somewhere else for the time being, and talk about it. And agree that you aren't ending the conversation without a resolution. Then, since you're SURE you don't want anymore kids, I'd go get a vasectomy stat.

Edited. Never mind. Fell for the T lol.

Really? Go do something else with your Sunday

If this is serious you need a date with a cast iron skillet to the head. You don't drug people wtf?!

You cannot force her to do anything and they won't give a man the pills... You need to sit down and talk to her, maybe convince her to talk to someone about how the pregnancy will affect her PPD. You have to let her make the decision herself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Let the rain fall:</b>" Troll is what this is."</blockquote>

I figured that much but it really bothered me. *hangs head in shame* I allowed my PMS hormonal self to feed the troll.

this is completely horrible. It is not just her fault that shes pregnant and you need to step up and take responsibilty for this as well. making her take the abortion pill is very cruel. If she wants to keep the baby that is her choice and it will be your responsibilty to help support that baby just like you help support your other two children

Quoting Mama Rice:" Ummmm yeah!? WTF? I was willing to offer advice until you mentioned giving her the abortion pill against ... [snip!] ... ultimatum for abotion and the wire coat hanger. What she does with the baby is not your choice in the least. Plain and simple."

I understand the wire comment was a severely bad joke. I have tried talking to her about it, but due to prego hormones or whatever, she automatically launches into a two hour tirade about how I should either make more money to help, or how I just don't care about her, or the baby, or our two kids, even though I work 5-6 days a week, make 25$ an hour, and have to work 10-12 hour days in construction. I might seem like a troll, but dealing with this bs for over 5 years kinda makes you not really care anymore

Quoting raining:" I understand the wire comment was a severely bad joke. I have tried talking to her about it, but due ... [snip!] ... in construction. I might seem like a troll, but dealing with this bs for over 5 years kinda makes you not really care anymore"

At this point, if she wants to keep it, you are either going to have to support it and stick it out, or leave her because you resent her for keeping it.

And either way you are stuck with a new baby.

Quoting raining:" I understand the wire comment was a severely bad joke. I have tried talking to her about it, but due ... [snip!] ... in construction. I might seem like a troll, but dealing with this bs for over 5 years kinda makes you not really care anymore"

See now I know it is a troll. $25 an hour in construction is a big smurfing joke.

Im confused? You couldnt even do that because its not like are candy and you can get them at any mom and pop store..
Only a pregnant women can go to a planned parent hood and get a abortion.. bad joke....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Let the rain fall:</b>" See now I know it is a troll. $25 an hour in construction is a big smurfing joke."</blockquote>

Still could be a troll but my DH makes $28 an hour and he works construction. He is moving up to 2nd in the whole company and getting a $10 an hour raise in April when the owner retires and the current 2nd takes his place.