Had to get this off my chest

Make a long story short. SO came home yesterday at about 1pm and said he was going to his friends house. I was fine with that until he demanded that I give him money for a $100 dollar bottle of liquor even though he bought one just a few days earlier. He got so mad at I just gave it to him. Well I asked if I could come over with him to his friends to drink because I was done with my homework and I hadn't seen him all week because of our conflicting work schedules. He said no and said that I was annoying. I asked him who was all going to be there and he said some of his guy friends and there girlfriends. I was like okay if their girlfriends are going to be there why cant I go? He said because he doesn't want me there. He left I forgot about it and started doing more homework for a couple hours and then took a break. Well I got on facebook and saw that one of the girls that hangs out with them posted on his wall."lord of the rings marathon <3 with Zachary ****. MY SmUrfING FIANCE. So I decided to go over there to see what was going on because SO was ignoring my calls.. Well when I knocked on the door I heard them talking inside saying oh smurf its sierra. Well SO's friend comes out side to talk to me saying that SO doesn't want to see me. By now I was pissed and tried to walk in anyways. His friend grabbed the door and held it shut so I couldn't get in. well I got in anways and saw SO sitting on the couch and the chick that posted that status runs to the bathroom. The only people that were there were SO,SO's friend and two girls that are 15 and 16 years old! I started demanding answers and I could tell SO was drunk. He told me it was over and to go do him a favor and kill myself. I slapped the smurf out of him in front of everyone and ran out. Well this morning he comes home and says hes done with me and he couldn't believe I slapped him in front of his friends he packed his stuff and left. I'm just thinking what about what he smurfing said to me in front of everyone? Was I wrong to slap him? He had to be cheating right? I mean I didn't walk in on them smurfing but they were sitting right next to each other before she got up and locked herself in the bathroom.

I don't think the slap was out of line, he told you to go kill yourself, that's low and he sounds like a smurfbag. And also, that he told you that you couldn't come and ended up being over there with just the guy and two girls, weird. Sounds like he had intentions of cheating if he hadn't already.

You should've kicked his balls up to his throat instead of little slap. What a peice of smurf   Yes he is cheating, which is the real reason he left. Blaming you just makes him feel better about being a douchebag.

Douche he deserved that slap.. i would have done more.

I would've slapped my fiancé had he of said smurf like that too. I'm so sorry you're going through this. He sounds like a douchebag. The fact that he didn't want you there was pretty suspicious IMO.

Who the smurf cares if it was out of line? He's a piece of smurfing smurf and you need to change all your locks, his ass is OUT. I'd also report that smurf to the cops next time you know they are over there with minors and alcohol! You should've called when you left so they'd get busted, that is HIGHLY illegal!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting SaucyPoppet:</b>" Who the smurf cares if it was out of line? He's a piece of smurfing smurf and you need to change all your ... [snip!] ... they are over there with minors and alcohol! You should've called when you left so they'd get busted, that is HIGHLY illegal!!"</blockquote>



This!!!!!! He does not need to be with minors

Quoting SaucyPoppet:" Who the smurf cares if it was out of line? He's a piece of smurfing smurf and you need to change all your ... [snip!] ... they are over there with minors and alcohol! You should've called when you left so they'd get busted, that is HIGHLY illegal!!"

So is 20 and his friend is too. I should have called now that I think about it. I don't know who bought it for them. I just don't know how things got to this point we were both deeply in love two weeks ago he even bought me an engagement ring.

How old is he? There was alcohol around minors they were probably drinking it too why didn't you call the cops. And I would have punched him on the throat.

Quoting Glo♥:" How old is he? There was alcohol around minors they were probably drinking it too why didn't you call the cops. And I would have punched him on the throat."

hes 20. I didn't even think about calling the cops at the time.Damn

Yes, he was cheating. You were completely in the right to slap him. I would have called the cops on him as well.

Quoting SierraZeke&Zach:" So is 20 and his friend is too. I should have called now that I think about it. I don't know who bought ... [snip!] ... I just don't know how things got to this point we were both deeply in love two weeks ago he even bought me an engagement ring."

>.< what happened is he is 20 and men don't mature until about uhhh 28.

Smurf, I would've punched him in the face and left his crap on the front lawn; wouldn't have even let him come in and get it. Douche.

He sounds like a complete liar and cheater. I would have slapped him too!

It definitely sounds like he is cheating. I'm sorry  
Honestly, though, you and your son are better off without him if that's how he is going to treat you. The fact that he didn't want you to go so he could hook up with a 15/16 year old is disgusting. He'll probably come crawling back soon, but you really really should NOT take him back when he does!
Oh and I would've slapped him too! I probably would've done more than just a slap. You were definitely not out of line with that.