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oh jeez and I thought 3 weeks was a bad dry spell with dh! :/

Quoting Rydicule91:" OMFG STFU WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *siiiiigggghhhh* Good god...bless your soul..."

Lmao ikr.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" raawwrrrrrr  "</blockquote>




Haha nope!

Once he gets home I'll be off to bed. I'm very tired.

<blockquote><b>Quoting IDGAF ❤:</b>" Man...this reminded me...it has been almost 2 years since I had sex. ( I am single though) lol."</blockquote>




I got sex for 2 weeks after deployment before getting knocked up and being put on pelvic rest. Other than 2 weeks when he first got home, it will be 19-21 months for me  

Worth it, but I have a VERY high drive and now I'm not even allowed to masturbate or get off at all  

Quoting kelsey054:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" raawwrrrrrr  "</blockquote> Haha nope! Once he gets home I'll be off to bed. I'm very tired."

Damn...

Quoting bbbt:" I have never had an orgasm from sex. Ever. It doesn't feel pleasurable to me. I only get off by rubbing, but never by vaginal penetration. I don't know, I think I have a problem, it always hurts. "

That's crazy   I can't imagine. (It always hurting).

Quoting ♥Daenerys:" That's crazy   I can't imagine. (It always hurting)."

It's called vaginismus I think, it's where your vaginal muscles constrict every time there is penetration. I think I might have that, but I've never been diagnosed.

I asked because it's been 20 days (yes, I've been counting haha) since SO and I had sex. He's got some medical stuff going on though, so I understand, and haven't bothered him for it. But today we've had sex twice so far, and I'm already ready to go at it again. Sometimes I actually kind of get annoyed with my sex drive.  

Quoting bbbt:" It's called vaginismus I think, it's where your vaginal muscles constrict every time there is penetration. I think I might have that, but I've never been diagnosed. "

I'm sorry. Does it hurt the way it does the first time you have sex?

I'm always sore after sex, it almost feels like I'm swollen... but I'm totally fine during sex, it's weird. I usually try to avoid having sex in the morning if we are planning on doing a lot of walking that day (like if we plan to go shopping), because my area hurts so bad and it will just throb all day if we do.

Quoting bbbt:" I have never had an orgasm from sex. Ever. It doesn't feel pleasurable to me. I only get off by rubbing, but never by vaginal penetration. I don't know, I think I have a problem, it always hurts. "

you could have something wrong.

I get off just fine. I just work long hours and live far from work, so even on teh weekends, I just want to be left the smurf alone.
I'm 28 weeks pregnant, so I'm always horny, but meh... just don't touch me.

Quoting ♥Daenerys:" I'm sorry. Does it hurt the way it does the first time you have sex? I'm always sore after sex, it ... [snip!] ... lot of walking that day (like if we plan to go shopping), because my area hurts so bad and it will just throb all day if we do."

It feels like it's been stretched, like it doesn't want to open and his penis is ripping it. I usually just grin and bear it because I feel like it'd really upset him if I told him sex just hurt me and wasn't pleasurable at all.

Quoting bbbt:" It feels like it's been stretched, like it doesn't want to open and his penis is ripping it. I usually ... [snip!] ... just grin and bear it because I feel like it'd really upset him if I told him sex just hurt me and wasn't pleasurable at all. "

Ouch that doesn't sound fun.   Have you ever talked to a doctor about it, or have you just dealt with it?

Quoting ♥Daenerys:" Ouch that doesn't sound fun.   Have you ever talked to a doctor about it, or have you just dealt with it?"

Just kind of dealt with it, really. It has gotten progressively worse though. I should probably bring it up during my next pap.

Quoting bbbt:" Just kind of dealt with it, really. It has gotten progressively worse though. I should probably bring it up during my next pap. "

Do you wear tampons? Does it hurt during paps too? I would bring it up, especially since it's only gotten worse.

5 months during my pregnancy (pelvic rest) but other than that a month or so. we just had sex today actually after about a month. the baby is very demanding and my drive is low because of my weight gain. but yeah