Quoting ღSheilaღ:" Marriage is over-rated IMO. I have been wanting to get a divorce for some time now and from what i've heard it costs more then getting married "
Quoting Rydicule91:" I'm trippin on the fact that he will do it just to make me happy, not himself. He doesn't think anything ... [snip!] ... together isn't enough! I want his last name, if I had any thought we wouldn't I wouldn't have given our child his last name."
Quoting Red Bottom:" You should be flattered that he will do it just to make you happy. It doesn't need to be important to ... [snip!] ... same family. What's important is that he recognizes that it's important to you and because of that, he's willing to do it. "
Quoting 3 little monsters:" I would not stay with someone that didn't see marriage in our future. I know man just see it as a piece ... [snip!] ... is one of those but it's very important to me. Much more than a piece of paper and something I wanted out of a relationship. "
Quoting Red Bottom:" "men" don't see it as a piece of paper. "certain people" do. plenty of men value marriage for moral and religious reasons."
Quoting Rydicule91:" Would you have or would you leave DH/SO if he didn't want to get married? Does it make a difference to ... [snip!] ... just does it to make you happy and doesn't care? Also, how long would you wait for him to marry you until you said forget it?"