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Is he abusive?

Emotionally.
Verbally.
Physically.
Financially.

When I couldnt take the abuse anymore and I saw an out, thats when I decided to leave. I had no doubts.

Quoting Red Bottom:" Is he abusive? Emotionally. Verbally. Physically. Financially. "

No, none of the above. He just....can be so unbelievably selfish at times. I've sacrificed so much in my life, because of his stupid mistakes, since we have gotten together...Because I love him and wanted to help him. Yet, he just has this attitude like he is OWED something at times and....It really sets me off. I feel like I'm getting to the point where I dislike being around him 50% of the time.

I love him, he makes me laugh, and I enjoy our time together...most of the time. But there are other times when I just wonder what the hell we're still doing together.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" No, none of the above. He just....can be so unbelievably selfish at times. I've sacrificed so much in ... [snip!] ... our time together...most of the time. But there are other times when I just wonder what the hell we're still doing together."

What makes him selfish?
What has he done that has made you sacrifice?

Quoting Red Bottom:" What makes him selfish? What has he done that has made you sacrifice?"

I'm not going to go into too much detail. But has made stupid decisions in the past that cost me a lot of money that was meant for more important things...like bills. But...because he wanted to get drunk and make a dumb decision and I love him, I paid the price and sacrificed things I was working towards to help him.

Also, he has caused some problems with his work that may get him fired. Instead of thinking with some common sense, he opened his mouth without thinking of how it could affect his family. If he gets fired, then we will have to continue living with my parents(which I hate having to do). I have money put back to move out, but we can't move if there isn't steady income.

I don't want him to worship the ground I walk on or throw it up in his face. But when it comes to me finally accomplishing a goal or going out an buying myself a new nail polish, he feels like HE has to get something to..so we're even. :/

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" I'm not going to go into too much detail. But has made stupid decisions in the past that cost me a lot ... [snip!] ... a goal or going out an buying myself a new nail polish, he feels like HE has to get something to..so we're even. :/"

Please don't think I'm trying to pry, I'm just trying to get a better understanding of what you're going through, since it's obvious you're in a point where you're ready to make some decisions about your future.

It sounds like you resent him a bit. Do you think that's something you can let go?
Do you think he'll be able to sustain a job without ruining it?
Are his bad decisions constant?

How is your communication?
Does he validate your feelings?
How often do you argue?
Do you yell when you argue?

How much does he help with your child?
How often does he help around the house?

Does he appreciate what you contribute?

What does your family think?

Quoting Red Bottom:" Please don't think I'm trying to pry, I'm just trying to get a better understanding of what you're ... [snip!] ... your child? How often does he help around the house? Does he appreciate what you contribute? What does your family think?"

I'm just going to PM you so I don't have to put it all out there.  

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" I'm just going to PM you so I don't have to put it all out there.  "

sounds good