Quoting Devil Duckie:" What's more important? Going all Natural and your damn pride or the health of your baby? Really? What ... [snip!] ... for him to turn, but you need to be thinking of the big picture in the off chance he doesn't. you're being really selfish.
I would like to point out that I did say IF everything was ok I'd prefer natural, but IF there was a problem then I would do whatever I was told was best, the only reason I feel rail-roaded is because after we had a scan and found he was breech was saw a consultant and they never said a thing about any of it, almost as if they hadnt even looked at my notes. If they had discussed it with me before sending the letters I think I'd probably be feeling a lot calmer about having to see all these people, but the fact that nothing was said is the reason I feel like this, so please, if you dont have anything nice to say, or anything that can put a first time scared witless mums mind at rest, please dont say anything at all
because selfish is one thing I am not, not after trying for 3 years and being told I couldnt have kids, there is NO way in hell I would put my own needs before my childs.