<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" He seemed surprised but not really uncomfortable. It was a baseball cap. "</blockquote>




Yeah that's just weird and creepily thoughtful.

Yeah, I'm probably just reading too much into it... I trust him so I know there's nothing to really worry about. I just thought it was kind of.. random. I don't know, I would never do that. Maybe I'm a stingy friend?  

I have gotten similar gifts for my male friends before and I'm certainly not interested in any of them. Lol I'm happily married. But if I see something that I KNOW someone has been looking for, I'll pick it up for them. If a friend of mine had told me about a baseball cap he wanted and I happened to see it on sale or something, I would totally pick it up for him. No alterior motives here.

Quoting bbbt:" Would this bother you? Your husband/boyfriend works with someone of the opposite sex and he considers ... [snip!] ... gift. The gift cost around $50. If it would bother you, what would you do/say about it? If it would not bother you, why not? "

depends.. husband or boyfriend?

makes a difference to me.. also how long you've been together, if there have ever been trust issues in the past etc...

I wouldn't be thrilled to know some woman he worked with was into him, but I wouldn't be suspicious that anything was going on. He would never be unfaithful.

Quoting bbbt:" I'm not sure. I don't know much about her, but he said he thinks she's really lonely. She's a single mom and has just moved her by herself. "

I bet she is just trying to make friends. What did she buy him? That would help too.

Quoting Sarah Bare-ah♡:" I bet she is just trying to make friends. What did she buy him? That would help too."

Posted it a page back, it was a baseball cap.

Quoting bbbt:" Posted it a page back, it was a baseball cap. "

Oh, seems innocent enough to me. But I can understand why it would make someone uncomfortable.

I trust my husband enough to know no matter what her intention was he wouldn't do anything with her. I know his one friend and I trust them both implicitly. There's been one hag he was friends with he cut ties with because he knew I didn't trust her because the hoe tried to make out with him in front of me o.0 there's one at his work now that calls him her work husband and he's like "whatever crazy lady." lol

Uhhh yes, it would, but then I'm quite the jealous type

I once totally flipped out at my boyfriend cause girl at his work bought him a patch thing that you sew onto your clothes (in my defence, she told him to sew it on the crotch of his boxers and to write 'smurfs like the wind' under it and he told her he thought that was a good idea, so I think it's understandable I wasn't exactly happy)

You don't just buy random surprise gifts for men you don't have a thing for, and not many people like to see someone hitting on their partner no matter how much they trust them, so maybe just tell him that and if it bothers you that much, ask him to tell her he thinks it's inappropriate or something.

Yes, that would bother me.