re: Mymymy

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kathryn Booker:</b>" He did'nt know that she had sent the nudes or that she was hitting on him until he found out that I blocked ... [snip!] ... the morning knowing that he was with me.She just needs to go.I just wanted to make sure that I was'nt paranoid or overreacting."</blockquote>




You aren't overreacting BUT, the call has to be his. Nagging him especially without proof isn't doing you favors. KWIM Tell him how you feel about the situation and how disrespectful her behavior is to your marriage. Then back away. He has to be able to see it and call it or you look crazy to him. Understand?

Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kathryn Booker:</b>" He did'nt know that she had sent the nudes ... [snip!] ... her behavior is to your marriage. Then back away. He has to be able to see it and call it or you look crazy to him. Understand?"

I do,and I've done that.I just hope he realizes that if he keeps it up,I'll leave quicker than lightning.I'm a priority,not a choice&I refuse to let a choice bother my life.

Why does a married man need female "friends" in the first place? He needs to cut her off

Quoting {{Maria}}:" Why does a married man need female "friends" in the first place? He needs to cut her off"

I couldn't agree more.

<blockquote><b>Quoting {{Maria}}:</b>" Why does a married man need female "friends" in the first place? He needs to cut her off"</blockquote>




Um.. I agree but married men can have female friends, in fact they should.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" She really needs to be out of your lives. But I think I would be seriously pissed at my Husband if I told him someone sent him nude pics and he called me a liar because SHE said it wasn't true."</blockquote>




This.

Why shouldn't he have female friends? Men make their own choice just like women do, its whether or not you fully trust your partner. As long as you trust him then there isn't an issue in worrying about him having girl friends. My husband works with 90% of women and when ever he gets hit on, he will come home and tell me about it and we just laugh because I know my husband isn't a cheater and every woman he talks to knows about me and knows if she ever tried anything she would get kicked to the curb. Every man should have girl friends, just like every woman should have guy friends just as long as that friend doesn't over step their boundaries.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kathryn Booker:</b>" I do,and I've done that.I just hope he realizes that if he keeps it up,I'll leave quicker than lightning.I'm a priority,not a choice&I refuse to let a choice bother my life."</blockquote>




Just sit back and stop deleting her crazy. There was a girl my husband dated briefly 3 years before we met. When she found out we were getting married, she got all crazy and started psycho calling. It was out of hand. At first he was obvilious to it. Then, a week before our wedding she was at the bar and butt dialed him. He was on the plane home so it went to his voicemail. The message was her talking to her friends about her not coming to our wedding because she didn't think it was going to last because he was still in love with her and blah blah blah. Lol it was funny but at the same time, they hadn't talked until she found out we were getting married and that was a few months before the wedding and she wasn't invited. He blew it off. I called her back. I told her she wasn't coming to the wedding because she wasn't invited and to rest assured he wasn't in love with her.

Wouldn't you know it, she moved to Phoenix the year we got married. We lived an hour north of Phoenix at the time. Her psycho calls continued. She would call the house, his cell ect.... It took a while but finally he caught on and told her that enough was enough and she needed to back off. A few years later she friend requested him on FB, HE blocked her. I put up a stink early on and he kept saying she was harmless. I wasn't jealous or anything. I figured, of he wants to leave he is free to do so at anytime. I was annoyed at the excessive calls at the late hours and if nobody answered she would keep calling!! Eventually, he will see it. It is hard for him to when he is focused on your complaints about it. Sounds stupid but, men don't think like we do.