re: Mymymy

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amandα :</b>" Can someone address why they share a Facebook please. Is the name like... Jane & Bob, or whatever? Because that's tacky. Have some identity. "</blockquote>
Really. Shared FB scream "I'm insecure in my relationship"

We share a facebook because he hardly ever uses it,and I use it to play games.Most of our friends are mutual,so we saw no real need to have two separate accounts when he's never really on it,but I am.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kathryn Booker:</b>" We share a facebook because he hardly ever uses it,and I use it to play games.Most of our friends are mutual,so we saw no real need to have two separate accounts when he's never really on it,but I am."</blockquote>
So? My husband rarely uses his FB also, doesn't mean we need to share. Accounts are free so...

Quoting Kathryn Booker:" Hey ladies! So.My husband has this friend,who is female&dated his cousin,and tried to date him. Well,According ... [snip!] ... life.In all honesty,I feel it's inappropriate of him to have a female friend with a strong history of infidelity,and adultery."

She sounds like a slut and your husband sounds like a jerk.
I wouldn't be with a guy who thought I was lying over some over woman (he didn't believe you about the nudes)
And he needs to respect that she makes you uncomfortable and if he respected you he wouldn't want you to feel that way.

<blockquote><b>Quoting SavageDarling🌙:</b>" There is nothing she can do to make your husband cheat or leave you if he wasn't already going to. If ... [snip!] ... and break up my family, and I knew it, I would remove him from my life myself. It wouldn't be my husband's job to tell me to."</blockquote>




 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amandα :</b>" Can someone address why they share a Facebook please. Is the name like... Jane & Bob, or whatever? Because that's tacky. Have some identity. "</blockquote>




What's worse is that this whore knows they share a Facebook, and sent her nude pictures to it anyways... :-\

Quoting S U Z I E:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amandα :</b>" Can someone address why they ... [snip!] ... What's worse is that this whore knows they share a Facebook, and sent her nude pictures to it anyways... :-\"

Right?I agree.I felt offended.

What does us sharing a facebook have to do with anything?Tons of people do it.It's got nothing to do with what the issue is.There's no reason to down someone .

im in a similar situation with my SO. Drives me crazy how she is toward him and how she disrespects me. Take this how you want whether it be religiously just a matter of human nature etc. but when you put yourself in a situation of temptation theres only so long youre going to keep yourself from falling into the temptation. i hope that made sense lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kathryn Booker:</b>" Right?I agree.I felt offended. What does us sharing a facebook have to do with anything?Tons of people do it.It's got nothing to do with what the issue is.There's no reason to down someone ."</blockquote>




She didn't. She said that the chick knows you share the FB and sent the pics anyway. Like a blatant form of disrespect. Knowing you would see them too. You follow now?

Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kathryn Booker:</b>" Right?I agree.I felt offended. What does ... [snip!] ... you share the FB and sent the pics anyway. Like a blatant form of disrespect. Knowing you would see them too. You follow now?"

Lol.No.I followed from the beginning.I was just making a statement to those who made comments about how we shared a facebook.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kathryn Booker:</b>" Lol.No.I followed from the beginning.I was just making a statement to those who made comments about how we shared a facebook."</blockquote>




Oh. I bypassed those.

I used to break up relationships in high school (I was horrible, but I never slept with any of the guys) this chick is going to stay around and try her hardest to get what she wants as long as he let's her and eventually she probably will get it regardless. If my husband ever had a friend like that, he would never believe the chick over me and as soon as I told him I wasn't comfortable with the friendship he would've cut all ties with her, I know that because it takes a lot to make me uncomfortable and he knows that if I say something, then that person is bad news and needs to go, his ex best friend started causing drama saying that its his fault that she didn't have her kids anymore because he went overseas, I told him that I didn't want that smurf around me or the kids, but if he wanted to keep in contact with her then that was his choice, he then got back on facebook that night and deleted and blocked her because we are more important. My ex used to lie up and down about girls sending him pics, I later found he was cheating on me with them, I will never let a man call me a liar again or believe a girl over his SO/wife. I'm sorry, but I would've given him an ultimatum a long time ago.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lin Brown:</b>" I used to break up relationships in high school (I was horrible, but I never slept with any of the guys) ... [snip!] ... man call me a liar again or believe a girl over his SO/wife. I'm sorry, but I would've given him an ultimatum a long time ago."</blockquote>




Jealousy has no room in a relationship. Neither do ultimatums. If a person is going to leave or cheat, no amount of either is going to change that fact.

I am inclined to believe your situation was a bit of Karma and the wrong relationship combined.

He did'nt know that she had sent the nudes or that she was hitting on him until he found out that I blocked her.
He was unwilling to stop communication with her because when he was homeless a while ago before we got married,she found him a place to stay,and helped him out.
However grateful I may be to her for helping him,I'm more or less pissed off that shes got the gall to try to lie to him ,and then act like it's not smurf.
The chick texted him at 6 in the morning knowing that he was with me.She just needs to go.I just wanted to make sure that I was'nt paranoid or overreacting.

Quoting Kathryn Booker:" He did'nt know that she had sent the nudes or that she was hitting on him until he found out that I blocked ... [snip!] ... the morning knowing that he was with me.She just needs to go.I just wanted to make sure that I was'nt paranoid or overreacting."

no I don't think your overreacting at all. she is being very disrespectful to your marriage. I may used to do it to others, but now that I am older and know the value of a relationship, if someone was uncomfortable with even a friendship then something needs to be put to a stop just because it can ruin the relationship. good luck OP I hope you guys can get the issue resolved!!