Quoting SaucyPoppet:" Is it possible to develop passion in a relationship where there never was any? Lately I've been dreaming ... [snip!] ... because I miss that feeling so smurfing much and it is starting to drive me crazy... I just feel so hopeless and empty about it"
idk.. but remember there are more important things too.
my ex SO and I have a smurf ton of passion.. but he can't get his life together, and is going to jail next week. makes smurffy decision, and just plain won't grow up.
I'd rather have a man to depend on than passion.