No. I would never share my fiance. Especially since we have one child together and another on the way. I don't want that smurf coming between my family. We're too happy to need to have boyfriends/girlfriends. Yuck.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" No I could not, ever. He's mine. But this does seem weird. I thought open relationships were for a ... [snip!] ... of taking the role of the person you're in the open relationship with? I don't know if I'm explaining my questions right...."</blockquote>
I would guess to have someone who shared in interests that the wife/husband didn't. I wouldn't mind personally, I have sexual needs that aren't met because he just doesn't understand what I want or try for that matter lol, same with frequency. Just as he has sexual desired I refuse to do, so if he had a little "smurf buddy" on the side then it would give him what he wanted lol
<blockquote><b>Quoting HelloMeanie:</b>" If both are ok with it then it is not cheating. Rules are implemented, the married couples had kids and a big rule was nobody was to ever be brought back to their home they shared as a family."</blockquote>
We had that rule too. And while no one has met our kids we have entertained at our house and we do have one couple that will likely meet our kids at some point.