re: I'm a;most 14 years old and pregnant

Quoting Lissa J (16wks):"

gtfo with that smurf.  

1. That's rude and 2. It's possible. You'd be surprised at how many 13 year olds are having sex these days.

Quoting Lissa J (16wks):

I'm pretty sure that's not what she was asking.

yall should unquote lissa.

Quoting Mrs. Tebow:" I'm pretty sure that's not what she was asking. "

 

Quoting Molly  ):" I'm really scared. I can't be a mom. I don't know how to raise a baby.  "

There are always opinions. If you can't do it, there's adoption, or abortion. But this is a decision that you need to make for yourself. So I would talk it over with your parents. It was scary for me too, and I was 19 when my first pregnancy really took and I had no idea how to raise a baby. No experience at all. Its something you learn over time.

Quoting Piecey.:" yall should unquote lissa."

Unquoted the betch.

Quoting Molly  ):" I'm really scared. I can't be a mom. I don't know how to raise a baby.  "

I didn't know how to either. It's a huge learning curve. And most of it is instinctual. And I was 19 when I had DD.

Don't be afraid to keep it for JUST that reason. But don't let anyone force you into a decision either.

What? I'm not lying! I just took a test today and it said PREGNANT. My boyfriend was with me!! what are you talking about??

I don't know what to do. I think i want to have an abortion. I can't have a baby

Quoting Lissa J (16wks):"

Dude shut the smurf up. I'm sure you're such a saint...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Molly  ):</b>" I'm really scared. I can't be a mom. I don't know how to raise a baby.  "</blockquote>




At least you are honest. To me, that shows more responsibility than the other stories I have read. Give your parents time to cool down and all three of you (plus BF if in the picture) go thru your options and choose what fits your situation best.

Quoting Piecey.:" yall should unquote lissa."

Did, it actually didn't even post.




For the record, she's already sounding scared as Hell. If you don't have anything helpful to say, you should probably just read and move on.

Quoting Molly  ):" What? I'm not lying! I just took a test today and it said PREGNANT. My boyfriend was with me!! what are ... [snip!] ... was with me!! what are you talking about?? I don't know what to do. I think i want to have an abortion. I can't have a baby"

Don't worry about her. She's being a dick.

Think about it. Make the decision for yourself. Wait a week and think deep about how things would be with all of the options. Don't just make a rash decision to abort so you don't regret it later on.

If you have any questions about financial issues, parenting, abortion, adoption, just ask here. There are tons of ladies with experience.

I have been crying all day. I feel so alone. I have depression. I go to therapy for cutting and my eating disorder. My mom said it would be so harmful to have this baby.   Everyone thinks I am a whore. It was my first time. I made a mistake   What am i going to do.