Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:" I know you have that fear, that is the same fear I have to be honest but you have to do what is right ... [snip!] ... is right for you and your child.. And in the end he will see he smurfed up and he will have to live with the grief, not you."
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" oh noooooooo. his dad wouldn't even do that. his ass would be kicked out if his mother found out he ... [snip!] ... died, and posted a thread on here about it. I'm starting to wonder if he did relapse, used the suboxone and SO found them. "
Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:" Maybe that is what happened. That would be really unfortunate. Maybe your SO confronted him about it ... [snip!] ... him about it privately and just didn't delete the picture from his phone? Maybe it was just a son/father type of deal."
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" true, I never look at the possibility like that. Hopefully I am just over thinking all of this. SO's ... [snip!] ... junkies and smurf like that. crazy smurf always happens with drugs at his work, but SO always tells me how he stays out of it. "
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" true. But I'd still want to be informed about that, even if SO just pulls me aside to let me know what ... [snip!] ... errands. I wouldn't be okay with finding out he was using and being around my child or possibly using while watching my child."
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:</b>" I can tell when my SO is using too. ... [snip!] ... chance too. 5 months after getting back together I got pregnant with LO. I just know I couldn't go through that again."
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:</b>" Yeah I feel you. You will know the ... [snip!] ... at least I hope so. "</blockquote> Ditto girl! He's starting to get up now. Ill hive him time to wake up then ask him."
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:</b>" I cant remember how long after that ... [snip!] ... Being a recovering addict myself, I could never choose drugs over my child. I just couldn't. But I now plenty of people do."
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" well I asked him earlier this evening and thank god I did. When he came home from work the other morning ... [snip!] ... to risk loosing his own family and we are the best thing in his life. It was cute and we ended up having shower sex. lol"