Quoting xluucyx:" Just ask him, it's not like you were snooping so I'm sure he won't be mad, just try really hard to not ... [snip!] ... accusing him of anything (because you're not) there's probably a simple explanation and then you can just forget about it."
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" I wouldn't even give a smurf. He did me dirty like this is the past before LO was even thought of. When ... [snip!] ... it's probably nothing.\Even if he says they were his moms, I'm going to ask her. She is more on my side than her own son's lol"
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" my SO would think I'm lying and was creeping. lol I've crept on his phone before, but only because those ... [snip!] ... phone for no reason. I have suffered from addiction in the past, as to why I am kinda pissed this smurf was in my apartment. "
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" SO's dad was a halfway house owner. But it has been shut down for a while now. That is the only other thing I can think of. "
Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:" My SO lied to me about being clean for two months and I never noticed (this was before LO). How foolish ... [snip!] ... I would still be there to support him because that is what addicts need or else they will start using again to numb the pain. "
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" even if he does give a reasonable explanation, should I just let it go? "
Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:" I would, just because I trust him and believe that he would do the right thing and tell me the truth. Especially when it comes down to the consequences he would have to pay if he lied. "
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" From what he did in the past, and what he is capable of, I would not allow him around LO unless he is ... [snip!] ... That's just a mutual agreement we made between each other. Damn, he's asleep right now and I want to wake him up so bad. "
Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:" If it is shut down there is no way they are still getting the meds for the clinic. "
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" true. I'm worried now. I really wasn't when I first found it. Now all of my jumping to conclusions got my mind carried away. "
Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:" If you all made that commitment then I would trust he would honor it. Do not jump to conclusions because ... [snip!] ... to say anything that will trigger him into getting upset. I wouldn't wake him, let him sleep and go about it when she gets up."
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" his dad will occasionally do work on the side for others though. try to help others get clean and what ... [snip!] ... and anything serious gets talked about. They live right above us so we all talk about literally every little thing. "
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" I've already jumped to enough conclusions! hahaha My mind is crazy when it comes to this smurf. It's ... [snip!] ... to this smurf. It's just my worst fear is loosing my family to this. And I know I wouldn't give a 3rd chance if he did smurf up. "
Quoting Kali'sMommy♥:" Did his dad used to supply y'all with Suboxone? If his dad knows that you are both recovering addicts I don't think he would go behind your back and give your SO anything. "