re: BJs, how often..

Phew!!! I thought I was alone on that! Lol hubby comes home from a long hitch and I dread it. I know he is going to start gropping and pawing. I cringe. Lol I am like "get off me!" I know it is because I am exhausted and tired of taking care of everyone else. I think if he would just give me that little bit of time to unwind before he started in on another need/ chore, I might be more willing.

I am fortunate though, he never misses an opportunity to tell me that he loves me and still finds me as attractive as the day he met me. That was 10 years, 3 kids and about 40lbs ago. Lol

I swear, kids zap the sex drive right out of you if you are a SAHM. I find that when we are alone with no kids in the house (like when they are at gramma's) I am a little more likely to put out.

hmmm, probably about half the time these days, used to be more, but even though he's very clean down there pretty much all the time, the taste kinda makes me feel a bit sick sometimes since being pregnant for some reason unless he's literally just washed, I do enjoy doing it though, especially if I can make him all squirmy  

If we've had sex earlier that day already and not showered, then there's like 0 chance, gross

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Phew!!! I thought I was alone on that! Lol hubby comes home from a long hitch and I dread it. I know ... [snip!] ... I find that when we are alone with no kids in the house (like when they are at gramma's) I am a little more likely to put out."</blockquote>

I always find myself Worrying about dd waking up do I can't relax and enjoy myself  

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Phew!!! I thought I was alone on that! Lol ... [snip!] ... likely to put out."</blockquote> I always find myself Worrying about dd waking up do I can't relax and enjoy myself  "</blockquote>




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Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Phew!!! I thought I was alone on that! Lol ... [snip!] ... likely to put out."</blockquote> I always find myself Worrying about dd waking up do I can't relax and enjoy myself  "

I also have this problem. And she ALWAYS wakes up, even if we're silent.

I would love to do it more often, but he turns me down. I think the last time I did it was 6+ months ago lol.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Phew!!! I thought I was alone on that! Lol ... [snip!] ... likely to put out."</blockquote> I always find myself Worrying about dd waking up do I can't relax and enjoy myself  "

It's guaranteed everytime DH and I are intimate, one of the girls will wake up lol. I think we went uninterrupted once since DD2's arrival