re: BJs, how often..

Hardly ever.. Bad memories..

Every time we have sex plus a few times here and there.

Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for a teeth cleaning. Lol I do "play" a bit but, sex for us isn't as much for physical gratification as it is to fill my husbands emotional needs. Yes, I said that. He validates our relationship with physical affection. Long story but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol

Quoting Not tellin:" Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for ... [snip!] ... but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol"

I could definitely live without sex as well and I don't even have kids yet! lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for ... [snip!] ... but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol"</blockquote>



I'd be good without sex too. Even when we do it I only do it to hear him tell me I'm hot. I have no desire to put his dick in my mouth.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for ... [snip!] ... but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol"</blockquote>




I do that too. Is that bad?

Quoting 2+ Courtney:" For those of you who give your SO oral, how often do you give it? SO has been wanting oral since I've ... [snip!] ... I've had DD and I've only done it once (she's 9 days old) just curious as to how often everyone else does it for their SO."

SO loves it and so do I, so it happens quite frequently.. multiple times during sex and just randomly throughout the day I'll pounce on him and give him a little oral gratification. He always returns the favor so that's a bonus too.

Quoting Not tellin:" Never. Never have. Never will and he is ok with that. I have a terrible gag reflex. I get sedated for ... [snip!] ... but this was discovered during marriage counseling. I would be good if I never had sex again. I am popped with these kids. Lol"

That's kinda how I feel. I mean I like sex but I don't care enough about it to NEED it. It's more for DH.

Quoting Robert Downey Jr.:" That's kinda how I feel. I mean I like sex but I don't care enough about it to NEED it. It's more for DH."

OT but your avi is smoking hot.

Hmmmmmmmmm....smurrrfff....like 3 a day? He doesn't finish each time but he likes to tease each other until we get time alone to have sex. And then I do it also each time we have sex. He likes his blow jobs lol

Pretty rarely. I have this weird thing about mouths. I don't like spit and I don't like other people's mouths on me or my mouth on them. But I'd tell him to back the smurf off, you just had a baby. That smurf takes a lot of work.

He's lucky if it's once a month, and I rarely do it to finish only like a few minutes. I am really not a fan of it but I do it to please him. He doesn't do oral on me often either so it's fair.

As often as I can!! I absolutely love giving DH oral though!

Quoting 2+ Courtney:" For those of you who give your SO oral, how often do you give it? SO has been wanting oral since I've ... [snip!] ... I've had DD and I've only done it once (she's 9 days old) just curious as to how often everyone else does it for their SO."

during normal times, 3-5 times a week? (before sex, not just on its own)

no BJ's in place of sex if I can't have sex. Sometimes if I'm on my period and don't want to.

after a baby... smurf that. He doesn't get it just because I can't have sex.. AND>. I was busy taking care of newborns and exhausted after having babies

Everytime we have sex