Ugh these feelings

Was hoping i never got Baby Fever again... My lil one is 8 months old. Ive been having baby fever, i told myself and everyone i know i dont want any more since we have 4 already...but i just cant help but wonder what another lil boy would be like since my only boy is 7. I keep telling myself we dont need anymore kids. I really hate these feelings cuz one part of me wants another but another doesnt. I think im afraid to have another, for one my babies keep getting bigger and im worried we would have another girl and let myself and hubby down...dont get me wrong i love having lil girls but i would love to have one more boy. Sorry for all this, just had to get this off my chest, thanks to anyone who read this....

Don't have another baby because you want a specific gender. Only try if you really want to add to your family

Quoting saageex3:" Don't have another baby because you want a specific gender. Only try if you really want to add to your family"

Ya i know...no matter what I love babies so much. I dont think it would be for a few years...i need to give my body a break...Just hate having baby fever when i just had a baby

That's why I am doing the surrogacy thing. I have pregnancy fever but can do without the baby. I LOVE being pregnant but I have enough kids of my own. Not to mention just how amazing surrogacy is as far as giving someone the gift of life and the happiness of them becoming parents. It's just an amazing experience all around.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cass Hole:</b>" That's why I am doing the surrogacy thing. I have pregnancy fever but can do without the baby. I LOVE ... [snip!] ... as giving someone the gift of life and the happiness of them becoming parents. It's just an amazing experience all around.  "</blockquote>




I would love to do surrogacy, but I know even though the baby isn't actually mine I would get wayyy too attached. As for the OP, I definitely agree with what Saageex3 said.

Quoting Cass Hole:" That's why I am doing the surrogacy thing. I have pregnancy fever but can do without the baby. I LOVE ... [snip!] ... as giving someone the gift of life and the happiness of them becoming parents. It's just an amazing experience all around.  "

I dont think i could do the surrogacy i think i would get to attached even if the baby wasn't mine lol i just love being pregnant and having babies just i know 4 is good for us lol. But yes i agree that giving someone else the chance of having a little one is amazing!

Quoting ♥ mommy & colton:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cass Hole:</b>" That's why I am doing the surrogacy thing. I ... [snip!] ... though the baby isn't actually mine I would get wayyy too attached. As for the OP, I definitely agree with what Saageex3 said."

Agreed! I know its just feelings....I told everyone im done atleast for a while. I wanna enjoy my kids growing and not having to miss out on things having another baby.