Ever since my second son, I dont have the urge at all. Im too tired. Im exhausted all the time..honestly the thought rarely crosses my mind. My poor husband Im sure it wouldnt be so bad if he were more romantic..
I voted for a few times a month simply because dependent on work schedules, stress, etc, etc we can go through periods of having sex multiple times a week to not having it for weeks on end so I thought I would just vote somewhere in the middle lol I also thought about what I would be satisfied with on a consistent basis and honestly that is probably the best option, I wouldn't be happy with multiple times a week forever and I wouldn't be happy with weeks on end forever but I could settle with a few times a month so yeah lol
Usually about once a week I have that urge. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Depends on stress and the kids. My husband works until late at night so I usually just go to bed instead of waiting up for him. We have sex like 3x a week, max. If he was home earlier, im sure it would be more frequently. He does a good job of working me up to it when im not in the mood.