Quoting ♥AvaMonroe♥:" People can say all day that it isn't here age but it is. If she was 25 and saying all this she more than ... [snip!] ... don't worry bout bills being paid or do I have money to buy this. Also I bet if she was Married it would be all good, but why?"
Thank you! ^ Fav person on this site right here, officially.
I am motivated i am stable financially and MENTALLY ( to the lady who implied i have subconscious issues i need to deal with before having a baby, screw you by the way, i am perfectly fine.)
also! every parent every mother and father have a different story, good bad or in between.
bottom line its going to be hard, it's going to test me to my farthest limits, its going to cost money.
but i am sure we all will TRY to plan and prepare so we can have the best for our kids. even if it doesn't work out and we find new ways to make all the smurf better.
these are basic things that i DO know. far from every thing i am sure..
I am on this site because i don't know everything.
i am here for tips, and to pick the brains of women who know how to raise a baby.
Thanks ava! I am sure you are a kick ass mom (:
a majority of you piss me off.
now im not saying your bad moms i am sure you all have worked very hard for your kids as will I.
but the other majority of the ladies on this site are amazing supportive women who see the beauty in having kids.
even if they take of that majority of all your spare and not so spare time.
even if they cry when you dont want them too, or poop when your asleep in the middle of the night, or scream all night, draw on the walls? stain your carpets andd have us cleaning up every two seconds.
My life if stable.
me and my boyfriend are very happy and together on this situation, so quit trying to waste your time getting me to change my mind.
what's done it done.
and i'm going to kick ass at it.
the smurf i have seen makes me stronger not weaker.
it makes me see what i want for my child.