re: Late!

Quoting ♡ Internet Bitch:" Yup, It seems to mostly be people from the States or Ontario lol, but I enjoy it here. How long have you been TTCing for?"

Just about two months now!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" I also got pregnant at 17 and had my daughter at 17. It was hard and we had support when we needed ... [snip!] ... saying she doesn't deserve to be a mother, but that baby deserves a mother who will be able to be there every day of the week."</blockquote>




Congrats on Graduation! I did the same thing, 3 degrees. A sacrifice for both myself and the kids but our quality of life is so much better because of it. Kudos to you for sticking with it!

<blockquote><b>Quoting October2011:</b>" I still get my nights out...it's called grocery shopping!! ;)"</blockquote>




Lol!

<blockquote><b>Quoting peekin3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" I also got pregnant at 17 and had my daughter ... [snip!] ... for both myself and the kids but our quality of life is so much better because of it. Kudos to you for sticking with it!"</blockquote>

Thank you!  

I want to go back to school once DS is in Nursery. So another 2 years but I'm "still young" as I keep hearing. So I'm going to go back. Lol

Sound like from all this OP, you need attention and something in life that depends on you, I think problems for you are deeper then a child. You need to wait

People can say all day that it isn't here age but it is. If she was 25 and saying all this she more than likely get more congrats than a girl could handle. My job is a smurffer, nothing that good high school diploma cant get you....smurf probably not even that. Good old Mcdoanlds.....I have been there since march 07...which was 3 months before I found out Antonio would be his name. I was going to West Georgia, with his father, but living with my mother. Me and his father separated about 2 years ago to then later ( now ) get back together which at this time I had Antonio most the time, still working at mcdonalds.....finally moved out on my own paying all my own bills and working full time, and caring for my son as well; while working at mcdonalds. Job doesn't matter cause a a mother your going to make any and everything happen for your child no matter what your making an hr. Mothers make it their business for their kids to have no recollection of bad times. With that being said like OP said if she has the means let her do so.....looking at her age isn't fair. I make 8.05 not minimum but still isn't smurf at the end of the day but it has been taking care of me and my son since I was 19. At that age ( I ) didn't have the means, but if I was living then like I am now and was 19 and working at mcdonalds I would have a baby because I have the means. I don't worry bout bills being paid or do I have money to buy this. Also I bet if she was Married it would be all good, but why?

Quoting ♥AvaMonroe♥:" People can say all day that it isn't here age but it is. If she was 25 and saying all this she more than ... [snip!] ... don't worry bout bills being paid or do I have money to buy this. Also I bet if she was Married it would be all good, but why?"

Thank you! ^ Fav person on this site right here, officially.
I am motivated i am stable financially and MENTALLY ( to the lady who implied i have subconscious issues i need to deal with before having a baby, screw you by the way, i am perfectly fine.)
also! every parent every mother and father have a different story, good bad or in between.
bottom line its going to be hard, it's going to test me to my farthest limits, its going to cost money.
but i am sure we all will TRY to plan and prepare so we can have the best for our kids. even if it doesn't work out and we find new ways to make all the smurf better.
these are basic things that i DO know. far from every thing i am sure..
I am on this site because i don't know everything.
i am here for tips, and to pick the brains of women who know how to raise a baby.

Thanks ava! I am sure you are a kick ass mom (:

a majority of you piss me off.
now im not saying your bad moms i am sure you all have worked very hard for your kids as will I.
but the other majority of the ladies on this site are amazing supportive women who see the beauty in having kids.
even if they take of that majority of all your spare and not so spare time.
even if they cry when you dont want them too, or poop when your asleep in the middle of the night, or scream all night, draw on the walls? stain your carpets andd have us cleaning up every two seconds.
My life if stable.
me and my boyfriend are very happy and together on this situation, so quit trying to waste your time getting me to change my mind.
what's done it done.
and i'm going to kick ass at it.
the smurf i have seen makes me stronger not weaker.
it makes me see what i want for my child.

/exhale.

You tell 'em!

I am right there with you being young and done with the bar/clubbing scene. But of course I am turning 23 this year, but at your age, I was feeling the same.
My mom was 19 and pregnant with my oldest brother (22 with me). Him and I came first to her ALWAYS. She had an unstable life, and an non-extant DH. But she did it.

If you feel like YOU are stable, and YOU&SO can handle this, more power to you. I will sprinkle that baby dust your way over and over again. I wish you more than anything for you to conceive like you wish to.

So here is to fingers crossed (:

All im thinking is.....TEST!!!!! If this is what you and your BF want, then by all means go for it!

<blockquote><b>Quoting MilaaMischief:</b>" Thank you! ^ Fav person on this site right here, officially. I am motivated i am stable financially ... [snip!] ... to kick ass at it. the smurf i have seen makes me stronger not weaker. it makes me see what i want for my child. /exhale. "</blockquote>

Sounds like your a waitress.
Are you sure you can have a pregnant body and still work your job. Because I know where I live most of the waitresses working in the restaurants where they do make 100+ in tips all have the same body type. Which is definantly NOT the pregnant or post baby body.

I think your being selfish and thinking more about what YOU want other then thinking more about what a baby will need. Ya your stable now, ya you think you can do it now. BUT now is totally different because you have NO baby.

But go ahead have a baby.
Congratulations!

Quoting Nozzy:" You tell 'em! I am right there with you being young and done with the bar/clubbing scene. But of course ... [snip!] ... way over and over again. I wish you more than anything for you to conceive like you wish to. So here is to fingers crossed (:"

Thank you so much!
Baby dust to you too! <3

Quoting MilaaMischief:" awe sweet!   woah! really?! never thought i would see someone here from the island. ahaha!"

I am from campbell river!! LOL im on the island too  

Quoting *Country Chick*:" I am from campbell river!! LOL im on the island too  "

campbell river wanna giver?

Quoting ♡ Internet Bitch:" campbell river wanna giver?"

Oh my god my mom lives in campbell river.
crazy.

Quoting MilaaMischief:" Oh my god my mom lives in campbell river. crazy."

haha small world!