re: Late!

Quoting MilaaMischief:" Thanks! ahah! yea my apartments a decent size small for a two bedroom though in my opinion. "

We have a 3 bedroom house that is less than 1,000 sq feet   no kitchen table and the washer and dryer are in the kitchen lol, its actually really nice for a starter home. You are doing better than we did at first though. We were married for 4 years and I was 6 months pregnant with our second kid by the time we were able to move out of famiys house and have our own place.

Quoting ~~Nae~:" We have a 3 bedroom house that is less than 1,000 sq feet   no kitchen table and the washer and dryer ... [snip!] ... and I was 6 months pregnant with our second kid by the time we were able to move out of famiys house and have our own place."

awe! god if i found out i was pregnant when i was living with my dad i would move out SO fast.

Quoting Mrs.Pinkman:" Yep. She lives in Canada. The legal age is 19 in most provinces."

Its 18.

Quoting MilaaMischief:" awe! god if i found out i was pregnant when i was living with my dad i would move out SO fast."

We tried but we have had soooo many medical bills. When we first got married I was seeing a specialist, then we had a baby, then she had to see 2 specialists, then I had heart surgery, then I had another baby.   hoping thats all out of the way now.

Quoting ~~Nae~:" We tried but we have had soooo many medical bills. When we first got married I was seeing a specialist, ... [snip!] ... then she had to see 2 specialists, then I had heart surgery, then I had another baby.   hoping thats all out of the way now."

Holy cow!

Quoting MilaaMischief:" a little late now. I have my heart set on this i have never been this happy and motivated about something in my life. "

How about you motivate yourself into getting an education with a good job first?
Trust me.. Best idea!  

Quoting Mommy|Of2:" How about you motivate yourself into getting an education with a good job first? Trust me.. Best idea!  "

I have an education, thanks though.
Made up muh mind.

Quoting MilaaMischief:" I have an education, thanks though. Made up muh mind. "

In what?
If you don't mind me asking?

Because your profile says your a cashier. Which can't make you much more then minimum wage.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~Nae~:</b>" We have a 3 bedroom house that is less than 1,000 sq feet   no kitchen table and the washer and dryer ... [snip!] ... and I was 6 months pregnant with our second kid by the time we were able to move out of famiys house and have our own place."</blockquote>




Unplanned pregnancy at 19 vs TTC @ 19 totally different. Yes you faired we'll, as I did at 17... But as you said you lived with family for 4 years... Totally different scenario. I was excited at 17 too... Because "I knew everything" I was excited again at 28 because I figured I had learned everything that I thought I knew at 17... And here came number 3 @ 34... Swift kick to forehead! I got this crap down now! Moral of the story... You can't really plan at 19... You can THINK you have it all planned but then life happens. Best of luck to you. Congrats if you are expecting, and don't forget to "plan" for nothing to go as planned.

Quoting peekin3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~Nae~:</b>" We have a 3 bedroom house that is less than 1,000 ... [snip!] ... then life happens. Best of luck to you. Congrats if you are expecting, and don't forget to "plan" for nothing to go as planned."

I always think about what could happen but im not going to sit around and wait for that perfect time to come cause it won't there will always be a what if, life will always throw me curve balls but i will always fight my hardest to get through it especially for my baby. I don't think i know everything either, i just like to keep informed and learn new stuff, there will always be new stuff to learn with baby.
people keep calling me a know it all but the thing is, i'm not i just want whats best for this baby and i want to try and absorb all the knowledge and planning i can only to hope for the best for my baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MilaaMischief:</b>" I always think about what could happen but im not going to sit around and wait for that perfect time ... [snip!] ... best for this baby and i want to try and absorb all the knowledge and planning i can only to hope for the best for my baby. "</blockquote>




You keep saying I want this, and this is what I want. Are you single? Or does your boyfriend have a say?

Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MilaaMischief:</b>" I always think about what could happen ... [snip!] ... You keep saying I want this, and this is what I want. Are you single? Or does your boyfriend have a say?"

I have a boyfriend, and he wants this just as bad as i do.
seems a majority of the people here over think everything.
anything i say has to be picked at some how.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MilaaMischief:</b>" I have a boyfriend, and he wants this just as bad as i do. seems a majority of the people here over think everything. anything i say has to be picked at some how. "</blockquote>



I was just wondering. You kept saying I, so I didn't know.
And most of us are mothers so we know how.it really is besides the cute baby.

Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MilaaMischief:</b>" I have a boyfriend, and he wants this just ... [snip!] ... wondering. You kept saying I, so I didn't know. And most of us are mothers so we know how.it really is besides the cute baby."

Exactly..

Also why are you avoiding my question about education?

Im sorry alot of people are bashing you. I got pregnant at 17 had our son on my 18th birthday. Got pregnant after being with my husband for only 2 months. It was hard during the pregnancy but i think mostly cause of horomones. But we never asked for a dime from anyone. My hubby (he was only a boyfriend at the time) made min. wage and we got me. Sure it was tough but we've only gone up since then. We now have 3 beautiful kids at home and 1 angel baby at the age of 24. My mom who was upset at us getting pregnant that young, but admits now that i was 100% a natural. We came home and didnt have any help from anyone (not that we expected it) But we did and have done it all on our own this whole time. If you can afford a baby, i think all the power to you. Best of luck <3 Try not to let the others get you down! Every woman who wants to be a mother and can be...deserves to be.