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ღFrodoliciousღonline

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posted 22nd Feb

Vent over, issue resolved.

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I'm TTC since April '13, have 1 child & live in Virginia

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Onalee's Mummy

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posted 22nd Feb

What a jerk. He's got issues. Tell him next time he wants lunch tell you before you get there to get his cheque.

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I'm due August 27th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Newcastle, Australia

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Red Bottomonline

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posted 22nd Feb

Who do y'all know that works at sears? Sounds like that's some kind of trigger.

It's y'all's bank account. You put his check in it. He can check it whenever he wants without you getting up in arms about it.

Dude was working and hungry. You could have done without the friend meeting, fawning, and cell phone fixing. I'm sure there was a Wendy's close by.

I get grumpy when I'm hungry too.

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I live in Middelfart, Denmark

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thats me. :)

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posted 22nd Feb

oh wow. that sucks. sometimes guys are just mean. he probably has trust issues that he needs to work out.

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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Edmonton, Alberta

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Bri††ani

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posted 22nd Feb

Quoting Red Bottom:" Who do y'all know that works at sears? Sounds like that's some kind of trigger. It's y'all's bank account. ... [snip!] ... the friend meeting, fawning, and cell phone fixing. I'm sure there was a Wendy's close by. I get grumpy when I'm hungry too."

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I have 2 kids & live in California

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Mother of One plus One

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posted 22nd Feb

*sigh
Sounds like my life every time I try to go out of the house alone.

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I have 2 kids & live in Ware Shoals, South Carolina

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ღFrodoliciousღonline

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posted 22nd Feb

Beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep

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I'm TTC since April '13, have 1 child & live in Virginia

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ღFrodoliciousღonline

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posted 22nd Feb

Quoting Red Bottom:" Who do y'all know that works at sears? Sounds like that's some kind of trigger. It's y'all's bank account. ... [snip!] ... the friend meeting, fawning, and cell phone fixing. I'm sure there was a Wendy's close by. I get grumpy when I'm hungry too."

Oh, and we know the very nice photographer that he knows I talk to, that's who works at Sears. And my female friend from high school who works at Belk, who he is also friends with.

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I'm TTC since April '13, have 1 child & live in Virginia

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Kelly +2 ERF/EH!

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posted 22nd Feb

Quoting Red Bottom:" Who do y'all know that works at sears? Sounds like that's some kind of trigger. It's y'all's bank account. ... [snip!] ... the friend meeting, fawning, and cell phone fixing. I'm sure there was a Wendy's close by. I get grumpy when I'm hungry too."

I have to agree with this.

And no matter how much I eat at 9am, I am starving by 12 or even before. If I told my SO I have stuff to do, he would ask me if I could run get him lunch first, or I would have gotten him lunch in the first place. Just makes more sense to get that out of the way for your working man.

I don't think he's a jerk, sounds like maybe he was checking to see when you had finally bought him some food.

And I'm not saying any of this in a bitchy way towards you. Just trying to put it how I would be thinking if I was the one waiting on lunch, not knowing when it would come.

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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Valdosta, Georgia

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ღFrodoliciousღonline

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posted 22nd Feb

Quoting Kelly +2 ERF/EH!:" I have to agree with this. And no matter how much I eat at 9am, I am starving by 12 or even before. ... [snip!] ... man. I don't think he's a jerk, sounds like maybe he was checking to see when you had finally bought him some food. "

Which I would be fine with if I hadn't told him it would be a couple of hours. I warned him well in advance that I had things I needed to do, and a few things I had been planning to do all week, and that I was getting lunch LAST. He said that's fine. If he'd asked me to go get it earlier, I would have, but he wanted a nice fancy Japanese plate of food, and I get that at the mall.

Sorry, but I refuse to fight Friday afternoon mall traffic twice just because he doesn't want to take his lunch break.

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I'm TTC since April '13, have 1 child & live in Virginia

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Lin Brownonline

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posted 22nd Feb

I can kind of understand why he was upset, I probably would've too if my husband did that, at least you could have texted to let him know you were running late instead of letting him sit there guessing whats going on and why you were taking so long. But he does sound kind of like he has some trust issues that need to be worked on and when you want to stay in a relationship with trust issues, you need to be patient with that person and understand, trusting someone like that takes time no matter whether they have cheated or not, my husband and I both used to have major trust issues since we were both cheated on, it took about 2 years to work through it.

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I have 2 kids & live in Tunnel Hill, Georgia

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Miniononline

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posted 22nd Feb

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly +2 ERF/EH!:</b>" I have to agree with this. And no matter how much I eat at 9am, I am starving by 12 or even before. ... [snip!] ... towards you. Just trying to put it how I would be thinking if I was the one waiting on lunch, not knowing when it would come."</blockquote>

I agree with you. When I plan on getting lunch for/with SO I will do the errands after lunch so in case something unexpected does come up I won't be late or not even show.
I'd be kind of moody too if I was him.

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I have 2 kids & live in Canon, Georgia

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BareFootBabyMaker

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posted 22nd Feb

If my DH handed me his check and requested I get him some food before I go spend the money he's making then I would make that a priority.
Pics, Verizon, and visiting with a friend could wait...but then again, my man comes first without a doubt- if hes hungry I feed him and the other petty smurf can wait.

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I'm due May 31st (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Springfield, Missouri

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mmayala

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posted 22nd Feb

I don't mean to sound rude either or bitchy. But my husband gets grumpy without food too, and I can understand his frustration. While he was working you could have at least brought him lunch afterall, you did just take his paycheck and managed to get that taken care of in a timely fashion. The hubs and I just like to see eye to eye on things, while if I were in this situation, I would have probably been upset if I were in his shoes too, but you have to look at his point of view.

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I have 1 child & live in Fort Dodge, Iowa

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Lin Brownonline

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posted 22nd Feb

Quoting BareFootBabyMaker:" If my DH handed me his check and requested I get him some food before I go spend the money he's making ... [snip!] ... could wait...but then again, my man comes first without a doubt- if hes hungry I feed him and the other petty smurf can wait."

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