Quoting Red Bottom:" Who do y'all know that works at sears? Sounds like that's some kind of trigger. It's y'all's bank account. ... [snip!] ... the friend meeting, fawning, and cell phone fixing. I'm sure there was a Wendy's close by. I get grumpy when I'm hungry too."
I have to agree with this.
And no matter how much I eat at 9am, I am starving by 12 or even before. If I told my SO I have stuff to do, he would ask me if I could run get him lunch first, or I would have gotten him lunch in the first place. Just makes more sense to get that out of the way for your working man.
I don't think he's a jerk, sounds like maybe he was checking to see when you had finally bought him some food.
And I'm not saying any of this in a bitchy way towards you. Just trying to put it how I would be thinking if I was the one waiting on lunch, not knowing when it would come.