re: ******

Quoting Lin Brown:" I can kind of understand why he was upset, I probably would've too if my husband did that, at least you ... [snip!] ... my husband and I both used to have major trust issues since we were both cheated on, it took about 2 years to work through it. "

I know, we've been working on the trust thing for a WHILE. I went to text him and tell him sorry it was taking so long, when my phone went apesmurf. I had to go to the Verizon store just to get it to work, and they did some kind of hard reset or something, and warned me my phone was possibly going out on me.

As SOON as I left there I practically ran to get food. So it's not like I was just like "Lalalalaa whatever I'll get it whenever I feel like it and blah!". No, I had to pay the bill and get all that sorted, get her pics, yes, I talked to a couple of friends while there, for about 10 minutes each, and then had to go get the phone looked at then got his food... It took a total of 2 hours to do what needed to be done. If he had told me he wanted it there and now, I'd have gotten it before doing his check, but he said it would be fine whenever I got around to it.

I didn't mean for it to take so long, and he had told me before that it was fine. I felt bad at first, once he started making accusations, I was pissed.

Quoting BareFootBabyMaker:" If my DH handed me his check and requested I get him some food before I go spend the money he's making ... [snip!] ... could wait...but then again, my man comes first without a doubt- if hes hungry I feed him and the other petty smurf can wait."

That didn't happen. He told me to get it whenever I got around to it. So, no, he didn't ask me to get it immediately, otherwise I would have done that. Which I've said many times.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Zdfstrhsd Trhyjyhj:</b>" HI IM GONNA QUOTE IF I WANT TO YOU POMPOUS COMMANDING VENTOR"</blockquote>




Seriously, dude?

Quoting Minion:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Zdfstrhsd Trhyjyhj:</b>" HI IM GONNA QUOTE IF I WANT TO YOU POMPOUS COMMANDING VENTOR"</blockquote> Seriously, dude?"

It's probably the same bridge dweller who has the most recent post in TDC.  

Quoting ღFrodoliciousღ:" I know, we've been working on the trust thing for a WHILE. I went to text him and tell him sorry it ... [snip!] ... so long, and he had told me before that it was fine. I felt bad at first, once he started making accusations, I was pissed. "

lol a guy saying "ya thats fine" is like a girl just saying fine... they don't always mean it, they tend to say it just to make the other person happy

Quoting Zdfstrhsd Trhyjyhj:" HI IM GONNA QUOTE IF I WANT TO YOU POMPOUS COMMANDING VENTOR"

you suck. go away.



OP, I have to say, I do agree with you. But the same thing has happened with my husband. He'll tell me one thing. and I'll be comfortable going to go get done what needs to be done and then I turn around and he's pissed.

Quoting Lin Brown:" lol a guy saying "ya thats fine" is like a girl just saying fine... they don't always mean it, they tend to say it just to make the other person happy "

I asked him like 5 times... Ugh. Men need to be straightforward! He's never had a problem with saying 'well I'm really hungry now, can you go pick it up for me before taking care of things?' before. He said he was fine and that I could take my time, not to worry about it. Hell he told me to go do a bunch of OTHER smurf that I told him could wait until later.

I don't know what his issue's been, he's had male PMS the last week and a half or so. He snaps at DD and he acts like an ass to me, then he's sweet and fine and all is well.

Quoting CurlyDimpledLunatic!:" you suck. go away. OP, I have to say, I do agree with you. But the same thing has happened with ... [snip!] ... tell me one thing. and I'll be comfortable going to go get done what needs to be done and then I turn around and he's pissed. "

Ugh thank you! You know where I'm coming from then!

If I hadn't asked him multiple times if he wanted it immediately, I wouldn't care and I know then it would be on me, but goddamn man, when he insists I go do what I need/want first, then gets mad? And says it took 3 hours? (It didn't)  

Quoting ღFrodoliciousღ:" I asked him like 5 times... Ugh. Men need to be straightforward! He's never had a problem with saying ... [snip!] ... PMS the last week and a half or so. He snaps at DD and he acts like an ass to me, then he's sweet and fine and all is well. "

maybe it's just his time of the month?

Quoting Lin Brown:" maybe it's just his time of the month? "

It's possible since men have a period of sorts every 3 or 4 days... *sigh* I'm just always the person it gets taken out on. And if he had just listened to me for a minute, he'd realize that I was at the electric company and getting my phone fixed for the biggest chunk of time... And my phone is my only way of contacting someone in an emergency, so yeah, that had to be fixed right away.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ღFrodoliciousღ:</b>" Dude had a large smurfing meal there from this morning when he went to work late, around 9. He wasn't ... [snip!] ... smurfing maid, if he wanted his lunch faster than that, he could have taken his goddamn lunch break and gotten himself lunch. "</blockquote>




You mean 6 hours between 9 and 2?

Where he's been working?

Pretty sure he said he was hungry and was correct.

Sounds like you left out that you went to sears, so apparently he did need to check the account.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ღFrodoliciousღ:</b>" Dude had a large smurfing meal ... [snip!] ... was hungry and was correct. Sounds like you left out that you went to sears, so apparently he did need to check the account."

Actually, no, I told him yesterday AND when I got his check that I was going there, and he even admitted when I brought it up that he forgot. And while he does have some serious memory issues, I shouldn't have to remind him 6 times in an hour that I need to stop somewhere. Especially when I have no idea if he remembers or not, and if I text him about that too much he'll bitch.

He got to work at 9. I got there an couple of hours later. He said he wasn't hungry yet, and to take my time. I asked 5 times if he was sure, he said he was. Again, when he doesn't text me to ask or say he's hungry now, then I have no clue he's suddenly gotten hungry and wants his meal pronto. If he had asked, again, I would have taken it to him.

And his 'working' has been a couple of oil changes and a lot of sitting and playing on his new phone. He hasn't been running all over hell and creation, he's had a slow day.

ETA: And I'm pretty sure 5 hours is NOT 6 hours. Especially since he ate at home and took himself a meal to eat at work. I've asked him to bring me lunch when I was at school all day before, and he was off, and all I got was an 'I'm too busy.' But I guess call of duty is a necessity, especially when I need to be on campus and hadn't eaten all day.

Sex and food is all we men ask for... ya messed up the food part... better make up for it w/some sex  

Sorry girl. Men bitch as much as we do whether they like to admit it or not.

Quoting Kelly +2 ERF/EH!:" I have to agree with this. And no matter how much I eat at 9am, I am starving by 12 or even before. ... [snip!] ... towards you. Just trying to put it how I would be thinking if I was the one waiting on lunch, not knowing when it would come."

I Have to agree with this too...I'm sorry I don't understand why you wouldn't get him lunch first and then go do everything else you wanted to do so you didn't have to feel rushed...and honestly it doesn't seem like much happened to warrant a "smurf today"....