Quoting pilot Jess:" Change the subject when it comes up. That's no one's business."
Quoting I AM TRON:" I would just ask them, "how does my method of pain relief make any difference to you?". "
Quoting MrsHollyWilliams:" I agree with you. My goal is to not be induced or have the epidural unless I absolutely don't think I ... [snip!] ... there to see you when you're going through the pain of labor and even if they were, that's your decision to make, not theirs."
Quoting HeatherTrauger:" Everyone's an expert... lol. Your labor and delivery are YOURS. Absolutely nobody can tell you what to ... [snip!] ... for their advice - keep the peace, but don't stress about what they say! Tell your doctor and have your own plan. Blessings!!"
Quoting Due w/ a little boy!:" I try and even SO is begging me to get one and I told him no. He is afraid I will be worse then when ... [snip!] ... to not have one, and he said if I don't get one he will just laugh at me for the pain and the mean things I will probably say."