Quoting Mandy and her girls!~:" I think it's rude to say you're coming and then don't unless something important did come up. I mean ... [snip!] ... mean you bought for these people, but if they never RSVP'd I would just assume they aren't coming and not waste money on them."Exactly. NOTHING important came up for any of them, they just blew the party off or forgot about it, or just didn't bother to show up. I asked, nothing important came up,as usual.
Quoting Miss Molly!:" If 15 plus people are invited, I expect 3 tops to cancel on the day because stuff does come up (illness, ... [snip!] ... you better have a damn good reason not to be there. You don't back out. I'm sorry, I would check into better friends "Totally agree. I wish I had good friends, but with a social anxiety disorder, and no car, I can't exactly meet anyone new...I only know the people I know...and they do nothing but disappoint me every year. I can't wait til she's in school, at least ONE kid from her class will show up hopefully.
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~*~Modern*Day*Delilah~*~:</b>" So, LO's big birthday party is ... [snip!] ... get it. This year, we aren't doing big parties. We are doing a trip and that will thwart disappointment and wasted money."
Quoting Zoe&Harper's Mom (Em):" sounds like they are not very good friends if they do that kind of stuff to you
Quoting ~*~Modern*Day*Delilah~*~:" Totally agree. I wish I had good friends, but with a social anxiety disorder, and no car, I can't exactly ... [snip!] ... but disappoint me every year. I can't wait til she's in school, at least ONE kid from her class will show up hopefully. "
Quoting BeginTheRomance:" I know we don't know each other, but if I lived closer I would bring my daughter to your awesome little ... [snip!] ... someone says they are coming and don't show. Unless something extreme happens. I'm sorry that people are idiots sometimes. "
Quoting redneck mamma:" SIL has never come to either of my kids birthday parties. She is always "sick" hell one year she played ... [snip!] ... but was miraculously better two hours later when someone called her wanting to go out. I just dont expect her to ever show up. "
Quoting Miss Molly!:" Yeah, I totally get it ;( I have a ton of friends with kids who LOVE getting their kids out and about, ... [snip!] ... for the parents and pictures anyway) and get a basic idea of how many and order pizza! You can never have too much pizza :p"