Quoting kiwi & gorda's mom:" Thank you all for your replies/advice//support. I did not go on Saturday. He is very upset and we haven't ... [snip!] ... him and when he's calm and ready to come see his kids he can. I am still looking into adoption or I I will keep the baby."
Know that with adoption he is going to have to sign his rights over and he is going to have to sign a piece of paper saying that he knows that he is the known father of this baby.
If you choose adoption, you can talk to me. I have hardened feelings about my adoption, but I dont let that stop me from helping others <3