My TTC journey.

I have been wanting a baby for the last year, my ex and I tried for the entire year to no avail. I was either late for my period followed by heavy bleeding or a week early. Come to find out my ex was sterile. (i should have realized that when the guy smoked a pack and a half a day and 3 or 4 monsters along with it) Well in September i started dating my now fiancé and i had given up with the whole baby thing because i had not realized my ex was sterile i just figured something was wrong with me. So i get my last period September 20th with a week after i started spotting... then a week with nothing then spotting then nothing at all... then November comes and still no period... I get a STRONG feeling to test November 18th because i had STILL not gotten AF... i had been to the ER to figure out what happened and every test had been negative before... so i test 11/18/12 and BAM dark as ever BFP... i was shocked... i called my SO and told him... i was still freaking out... i had set up a dr appointment to find out why i hadnt been bleeding a week before my BFP so when i got to the DR i just had her do a test... I was for sure pregnant... now here i am 18 weeks & 6days with my second son... i'm STILL in shock!! don't give up ladies!!!

Congrats on your pregnancy! But where did you come up with your ex is sterile just because you didn't get pregnant?? 

Quoting SherryandMatt:" Congrats on your pregnancy! But where did you come up with your ex is sterile just because you didn't get pregnant?? "

not to be gross but i remember what his cum looked like... and i even looked it up... he was definetly sterile!