Quoting Cheeks mom:" Let them dress/act and represent themselves however they're comfortable, as long as none of their changes are permanent or inappropriate to their age."
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" Regardless of physical appearance? 3, 5, 7, 9, 11, 13, adult? If they knew the difference between a boy ... [snip!] ... a teenager? Would you allow them to paint their nails, wear dresses etc without a second thought or would readily correct them?"