re: who watches your kids, and who works in your relationship

Quoting LiLMuChAcHa22:" I pretty much already am. I have good credit so the credit cards are in my name and he give me the money ... [snip!] ... know how much longer he will be around so Im not sure how much our rent will be or where will will be when we have the baby."

I hate how expensive the Bay is! I grew up in the South Bay, both my parents had to work...and now that I think about it, none of my friends back home are SAHM's. Hmph.

My husband works and I stay at home with the girls. He's military and we can afford that for the time being.

Quoting .chele.:" I hate how expensive the Bay is! I grew up in the South Bay, both my parents had to work...and now that I think about it, none of my friends back home are SAHM's. Hmph. "

Ya its really expensive here. the pay for jobs starts at 8 and the cheapest apt is like 1400 and I used to make 12 and thats barely 1300 -1400 a month I dunno how people are supposed to live here. Now our rent is 1500-1600 and SO new job pays 20 but with bills are everything its still hard. I want to find a job that pays at least 12 but err they all are paying hella low and its so hard

<blockquote><b>Quoting LiLMuChAcHa22:</b>" I would love to do that. What kind of job do you have?"</blockquote>




PA for an emergency response training company. I just do paperwork, update kits, the CPR dummys, nothing big. 98% of the time I am doibg paperwork though.

I work and hubby is a SAHD. We have 3 kids, 2 that go to pre-school for 3 hours 3 days a week, and my oldest is 8 and goes all week to school.

SAHM and DH works.