I need perspective ...

Do you ladies think that staying in a 150% unhappy marriage for the sake of the children is healthy for them?

No =( . And it's not good for the kids either. The fighting, seeing a non functional relationship.. There's still ways for him to see the kids, it might be tough at first, but its definitely better than being unhappy in a marriage.

I didn't read the rest of it. The answer is no. The kids sense the tension

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" I didn't read the rest of it. The answer is no. The kids sense the tension"</blockquote>


I've told him this but I can't seem to get him to understand it. He claims sacrifice his happiness will make him a better father and he'll just get divorced later down the road.

<blockquote><b>Quoting D,S,E = my ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" I didn't read the rest of it. The ... [snip!] ... understand it. He claims sacrifice his happiness will make him a better father and he'll just get divorced later down the road."</blockquote>




And it can cause resentment towards the children.