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I can send ya some! We got way too much newborn, 0-3 and 3-6 stuff and hardly any for after that. :/

But I'm just curious - if they literally have nothing and couldn't even buy their own baby's crib, how are they gonna pay for other necessary expenses? Healthcare for the child, formula if breastfeeding doesn't work out/isn't attempted, etc. I know you wanna help them, but how long do you think you'll have to? I don't mean to sound rude, I'm just trying to understand helping finance another person's family. Hope my curiosity doesn't come off the wrong way.

I messaged my mother in law to see if she still has some from my nephew... If she does I would be glad to send them your way!

Quoting kr.r:" I can send ya some! We got way too much newborn, 0-3 and 3-6 stuff and hardly any for after that. :/ ... [snip!] ... rude, I'm just trying to understand helping finance another person's family. Hope my curiosity doesn't come off the wrong way."

woman me and you both!!!!!! i have no clue. the entire pregnancy ive lietrally yelled and botched about their lack of like reality. theyre happy to be expecting yet cant afford to even take a sick day off work. they were living in a hotel for mths before that couch to couch its freaking sad. i told them this is my only attempt. im not ltting the kid sleep on their bed so thats why they got a crib and cloths ill see what i can do like on here and through good will but after that they better do it themselves or my aunt said she would be happy to take the baby but not them bc shes not bailing them out again.

im a single mom, my bd does min but he does give some and its hard AF doing it. it annoys the smurf out of me that theyre too damn niave to realize a kid cant live off love. they thought everyone at the shpwer would provide what they needed, WRONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG ughhhh... breathhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeee wooosaaaaaaaaa

totally not rude of you to ask girl i feel the same way if they only knew

Quoting Jennasmommy :" I messaged my mother in law to see if she still has some from my nephew... If she does I would be glad to send them your way!"

thanks so much!!!!!!!

Quoting kr.r:" I can send ya some! We got way too much newborn, 0-3 and 3-6 stuff and hardly any for after that. :/ ... [snip!] ... rude, I'm just trying to understand helping finance another person's family. Hope my curiosity doesn't come off the wrong way."

pm me we can discuss shipping etc payment

I'll bring stuff with me when I come. Why didn't you ask me you slore lol

My MIL is packing them up and sending them to me. I will wash them if you prefer. PM me!

Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].™:" I'll bring stuff with me when I come. Why didn't you ask me you slore lol"

i didnt think about it lol like i got rid of everything as he grew out of stuff. i ave it to whomever like needed it so i figured id just ask here. now i wish i would of kept the many boxes of cloths lol

they got like a few outfits put together not even a weeks worth of baby cloths really, kinda sucks wish i could do more but i cant right now. darn kids having kids ugh

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i went over their new room/studio to see what they had and yea not even a crib even though someone gave them one they havent found a way to get it. they have a few diapers and nothing really like as far as bottles and stuff like that. i have no clue what theyre thinking but seriously they have like two weeks left and i wish they would just realize things dont just happen on their own ugh

Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" they got like a few outfits put together not even a weeks worth of baby cloths really, kinda sucks wish ... [snip!] ... but seriously they have like two weeks left and i wish they would just realize things dont just happen on their own ugh"

That sucks, remind me to bring Jamison's things though.

Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" they got like a few outfits put together not even a weeks worth of baby cloths really, kinda sucks wish ... [snip!] ... but seriously they have like two weeks left and i wish they would just realize things dont just happen on their own ugh"

My MIL is still getting all my nephews stuff together. I will try to get it to you soon! I am sorry it is taking forever.

Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].™:" That sucks, remind me to bring Jamison's things though."

it does and it makes me mad that ive been telling them all along that they need to save and buy stiff like what are they waiting on is beyond me. i bought them like the starter stuff soap lotion etc 2 outfits and some other stuff but still thats like two days worth of clothes still need more. i hope they get it together like ASAP

Quoting Jennasmommy :" My MIL is still getting all my nephews stuff together. I will try to get it to you soon! I am sorry it is taking forever. "

girl its way beyond ok its not your fault and youre nice enough to help. just frusrated that like they dont listen

I completely understand. I had a friend of mine that used to be my neighbor that way. I helped with a little bit but I told her it isn't my job to provide for her baby because its not my child. I know that sounded really bitchy but she expected me to do all of that.