should we work things out?

I just recently found out my boyfriend has been talking with another woman sense Oct. Lily was born in Nov. He told us he was moving to mass to get everything ready so we could move down when everything was ready. but really he had moved in with this woman. right now we are not together.he has moved back here for now (not living with me). but i'm wondering if we should try to keep our family together and work on things or call it quits?

I wouldn't work on a sneaky weasel like that. He probably only came back because it didn't work with her.

its up to you if you can try to forgive him, i mean me personally i dont think i could ever trust a man again if he did that to me

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" I wouldn't work on a sneaky weasel like that. He probably only came back because it didn't work with her."

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Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" I wouldn't work on a sneaky weasel like that. He probably only came back because it didn't work with her."

This. Guess it didn't work out with her.

Do you even have to ask

he left you, pregnant, lied to you, moved in with another woman, and when she booted him out, he came back to you

No. He does NOT deserve another chance

If you do decide to try and work it out, be very careful, don't become dependent on him or vulnerable in anyway. Ultimately it's up to whether or not you feel that your relationship was at a point where it's worth it to try and salvage it. To me, having children is not the determining factor.

plus if you have a supportive boyfriend, why mess that up for someone that showed you he didnt want to be there for you or yalls daughter?

Any "man" that lies to me is not worth my time.


Find someone who respects you enough to be honest and faithful.

i dont know if I can forgive him. i'm thinking of our daughter. but i know kids can't hold things together. i want to hate him just somehow i still love him. :/

It's up to you but be smart about it and think on it for awhile before you decide. Sometimes things just don't work out the way we want them to and other times they do but not always when we want.

You don't need to hate him either and yes,you will probably always love him. That doesn't mean he's the only person you'll ever love. Having a kid with him doesn't mean that you have to deal with his crap....but you probably want to be civil to him if you're going to let him have anything to do with your daughter.

Quoting Princess Serenity's mommy:" It's up to you but be smart about it and think on it for awhile before you decide. Sometimes things just ... [snip!] ... with his crap....but you probably want to be civil to him if you're going to let him have anything to do with your daughter."

Thanks! that helps me to think easier.