Quoting Squid Kid:" Therapy may help you a lot. Meditation, plant a tree in her memory and care for it, send a balloon with ... [snip!] ... to her on a floating lantern and release it at night, plant a flower each year on her birthday, create a memorial for her <3"
Thanks those are all very good ideas. We released balloons at the funeral, and I think we will again on anniversaries. I feel silly talking to her. I have never been religious really, and as much as id love to believe she is in heaven with god, i have doubts because i have always had them.