I am soo confused!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" So the guy I'm dating (ldr) and haven't spoken since Friday. He paid for my flight and all expenses to ... [snip!] ... them out of proportion but this honestly makes me feel like he isn't interested but then we'll talk and everything changes. "</blockquote>


Are you together or is it casual? My boyfriend lives 12 hours away and I can't imagine going 3 or 4 days without talking to him. I talk to him multiple times every day, and we also send letters back and forth for something a little more personal. I would definitely try to figure out if you guys are on the same page...trust is crucial when you are long distance.

Quoting ::Nikki:::" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" So the guy I'm dating (ldr) and haven't spoken ... [snip!] ... personal. I would definitely try to figure out if you guys are on the same page...trust is crucial when you are long distance."

I don't even know to be honest. We had issues before because we never specified we were official but to him we were. He has this thing that to be an "item" you don't need to ask or say it, you just grow into. I have no smurfing idea when we become "official", it's so stupid but we have been trying officially for about 8-9 months

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" I don't even know to be honest. We had issues before because we never specified we were official but ... [snip!] ... into. I have no smurfing idea when we become "official", it's so stupid but we have been trying officially for about 8-9 months"</blockquote>


It seems lie after 9 months you should be comfortable enough with each other to have an honest conversation about it, and he should be way past playing games like this. I can definitely relate to your frustration, I've been there before and it really sucks

Quoting ::Nikki:::" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" I don't even know to be honest. We had issues ... [snip!] ... be way past playing games like this. I can definitely relate to your frustration, I've been there before and it really sucks"

To me, after smurfing 7 years he should know this crap annoys me!! I'm beyond pissed right now. I just don't get why he needs to play around, he isn't a kid he's freak'n 30!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" To me, after smurfing 7 years he should know this crap annoys me!! I'm beyond pissed right now. I just don't get why he needs to play around, he isn't a kid he's freak'n 30!!"</blockquote>


Honestly, I would probably just end it and move on.....jmo  

Quoting ::Nikki:::" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy2Kay:</b>" To me, after smurfing 7 years he should know ... [snip!] ... around, he isn't a kid he's freak'n 30!!"</blockquote> Honestly, I would probably just end it and move on.....jmo  "

I have been giving this a lot of thought. We have never not spoken for this long with him not even replying back, idk if to be worried or pissed.