Quoting Blair B:" Whenever my aunt comes over she immediately picks up my 5 month old.. She'll take her out of the swing ... [snip!] ... A lot of people in my family ask to hold her. I'm just wondering how would you feel about this and how do you politely say no?"
Quoting Javi's Mami*[Bazinga!]:" I don't really understand the problem lol. I would gladly hand over my baby to family members if they ... [snip!] ... they wanted him. If it's someone I don't know well that's a different story but I see no reason not to let family hold my baby."