Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Trixie7678:</b>" This kinds of takes me back to a day when my ... [snip!] ... just give her to me but she wouldn't. And her specifically because she will hold her forever and get upset when I take her back"
The only advice I have:
Be generous with baby cuddle time, because you get to see your baby every day, and they don't. BUT remember that you are the only one who's job it is to keep your little one comfortable, so if she seems upset, bored, hungry, WHATEVER and your family is reluctant to give her to you, who cares what they think, you know? She's your child and YOU have to keep her happy, even if it means occasionally offending granny.
Steal her away and give her what she needs/wants.