Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" I really don't want to get into the hows and whys about my first angel baby's father right now. But let ... [snip!] ... "our" Lily? My husband didn't have this reaction to our miscarriages, he was so removed. I don't know how to deal with this."
Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" I would probably feel confused and awkward. At the same time, you've had more time to digest it and take it in... he was kind of thrown this information. I'd let him have his time to process it."
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" I'd let him grieve. Offer him support if he ever needed to talk. I much rather him show "interest" then the latter.."
Quoting Tasha & Nika:" I think in part, this is healthy and good for you hun.. you need someone you can talk about this, who's not afraid to show how much this meant to him.."
Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" This is true. I've been with someone for so long who withholds emotions I forgot men actually felt deeply ... [snip!] ... Lily's dad when the emotions die down. It's been an odd few weeks being in contact with him after so many years of silence."
Quoting Tasha & Nika:" Take your time hun, this is all very new for you, but yeah I stand by my original statement, this is.. ... [snip!] ... very strongly believe that what we give to the world, and people, one way or another will project itself back onto us <3"
Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" Thank you for always being there for me. It kinda feels like I am finally getting the support too. ... [snip!] ... during that period of time in my life. I'm actually really glad that he does feel anything about Lily. It's a relief almost."
Quoting Tasha & Nika:" Because it's validation that what you were feeling is normal, and it's a beautiful thing, in itself ... [snip!] ... that loves your angel as much as you do, you know? It makes it all less lonely. I'm very glad you connected with him again"