Whats the worst thing your husband has said to you?

Whats the worst tging your husband has said to you?
Why? And how did you react?

Probably tell me I'm being a bitch or something. In the right years iv known him he has really never said anything that stands out.

I was 9 months pregnant and I made a recipe my aunt gave me. It came out wrong and I was crying and DH said it looks like something youd see in the toilet after a night of drinking.... I cried. Then left it on the stove for two days crying everytime I saw it and yelling at DH if he tried to throw it away

"You're acting like a bitch."

DD was 4 weeks old, and we were very tired and both grumpy. I didn't talk to him for a few hours. He slept and apologized. That's as bad as gets around here, so not too bad. Hasn't said anything close to it since.

Honestly. That he doesn't want another baby. When we met we agreed on 4 kids. And adopting one. I've had my heart set on it. After DD I had to get my tubes tied. So he said we would look into surrogate mothers in a couple years. I was telling him how I had been doing some research on it and he ignored me. So the next day I tried again as he smarted off "just freaking drop it. I don't want another kid so get over it". I don't think we talked for like 3 days.

We were having our only huge argument we've ever had and he called me a smurf but I called him an smurf who I regretted marrying in response.   Both were said in the heat of the moment. That was a few years ago.

"You're acting just like your mother"


     

Quoting Just Emily  :" I was 9 months pregnant and I made a recipe my aunt gave me. It came out wrong and I was crying and DH ... [snip!] ... I cried. Then left it on the stove for two days crying everytime I saw it and yelling at DH if he tried to throw it away"

funniest smurf ever!

I called him a fat, lazy piece of smurf because he threw away something of mine that I really liked(don't remember now)but he replied with 'Well I thought you were autistic when we first met because you laughed a lot.' ....I left the room calmy & didn't talk to him for 3 days even though he cried & begged me to several times. He apologized & said he didn't know what to say so he spouted off bullsmurf to make me mad.

This is hard to say.. But my husband and I got in a fight a couple nights ago. hes been super stressed out, his family is kickin us out, im not working, were kinda struggling, and were expecting.

I was argueing with him, and yeah ill admitt I was a bitch and everything when I shiuldve been suppirtive

Well pretty much he said if I ever left him and took the kids, he would kill me. And I started crying...

Well like 30 min later he fwlt soooooo bad and said hed hurt himself before me. He would never. Hes just soooo stressed he said

Idk how to react

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" I called him a fat, lazy piece of smurf because he threw away something of mine that I really liked(don't ... [snip!] ... cried & begged me to several times. He apologized & said he didn't know what to say so he spouted off bullsmurf to make me mad."

I'm sorry, but that made me crack up. Hahahahaha.

We were having a fight, I was pregnant with DD2 and we separated because I was getting too mad and needed to cool off. And then my mom called and said she wanted to skype for 2 minutes to show me something she got the baby. So I figured talking to her about something else might calm me down enough. Just as soon as we were about to get off skype, DH came into the room, pissed off and started yelling at me in front of her. Words were exchanged and then he said "I bet you were never really raped or sexually abused when you were younger."
I was heartbroken, and felt betrayed and alot of other things. I couldn't believe he would even say that to me.

"You're crazy like your dad"

I cried.

My dad is completely nuts and to compare him to me.. cut me like a knife....

We had a really bad fight one night and I threatin to leave him for a better guy & His response was good luck finding someone who wants your fatass"so I replied Yeah that fatass your obessed with. I'm sure it wont be hard."
And that was pretty much the end of it because he couldn't argue back lmao.

Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" I called him a fat, lazy piece of smurf because he threw away something of mine that I really liked(don't ... [snip!] ... cried & begged me to several times. He apologized & said he didn't know what to say so he spouted off bullsmurf to make me mad."

That must've been really hurtful and I would've been really pissed if DH said something like that...but I laughed. Like wtf? Who thinks of smurf like that?