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Smurf I'd be glad she didn't come to the shower. In fact, I wouldn't have even excepted her gift but that's just me. Why would i take a gift from you to my child if you don't even want this kid to exist?

Quoting saageex3:" Smurf I'd be glad she didn't come to the shower. In fact, I wouldn't have even excepted her gift but that's ... [snip!] ... excepted her gift but that's just me. Why would i take a gift from you to my child if you don't even want this kid to exist?"

I do feel like that sometimes.. && technically it was a gift from their family.. 3/4 ladies chipped in on buying it so its not even like just she got it for me. She's just an old bat lol.... But iv already told her she don't have to worry about him my family is super excited about this baby.

ehh... call her up, send her a thank you card.. whatever you have to do - just be the bigger person in this situation. It will probably be a life long battle with her.

....what is a viscotomy?
vasectomy?

Anyway, who cares. She'll get past it. Call her, remind her nicely that you did thank her already and that you planned on sending her a thank you card as well. And then move on.

Quoting Mayhem.:" ....what is a viscotomy? vasectomy? Anyway, who cares. She'll get past it. Call her, remind her nicely ... [snip!] ... her nicely that you did thank her already and that you planned on sending her a thank you card as well. And then move on. "

lol i want sure how to spell it and when I Google it that what it gave me..

I didn't think it looked right though

Does she not like you? I mean telling you to adort and the offering a vasectomy? I know mums are crazy about their sons but that's just.. Lack of a better word..rude! I'd kick up hell!

Quoting Talena_caro:" Does she not like you? I mean telling you to adort and the offering a vasectomy? I know mums are crazy about their sons but that's just.. Lack of a better word..rude! I'd kick up hell!"

Her exact words were
"Ima tell you the same thing I told Kimberly (her own daughter) you need to abort this thing before it just turns into a big mess"

For some reason she's anti kids.. I think it has something to do with her daughter has three kids yet doesn't have custody OR visitation to any of them. and SO's son's grandparents raise him b/c they were 16 and 19 when he was born.

needless to say i'm 23 not 16 and I WILL take care of what mine not pawn him off on the grandparents..... Hopefully she'll see that once he's born and finally give me a break....

&& the vasectomy thing I think but I could be wrong is cause she has 5 grand kids and 5 different sets of grandparents... between SO and his sister... but again not my problem I would love to try for a girl one day with SO && I know SO would to...