It's not smurfing fair.

DO NOT SmUrfING QUOTE!

Why do you get to go around telling eveyrone that I'm a slut and a whore and I'm god knows what? Why do you get to sit on your ass and drink, go out with mates to bars and do whatever you want while I'm at home, nursing my bruises and raising our children?

Why am I the one to be made to look like the bad person? Why is everyone just skimming over the fact that for no good reason you beat the crap out of me in front of our kids? Why is it me that has to be the mature one, that doesn't say anything bad about you in front of the kids, that doesn't breka down and cry about the fact that my whole life just went down the drain because of you? Why is it me that's truggling to afford everything now and you are throwing your money away on whatever you want? WHY? Why do you get to walk away scott free and I have to harbour all the responsibility for everything, even though this is your fault?!

Well gues what smurfface. It's been two weeks. The boys haven't asked about you once. And they're happier. They don't shout as much, they play together, they are blossoming now you're gone. And you'll find that out one day. You'll realise that the best thing for the boys is you not being around. But I know you'll come back. I know you. You can't handle that I'm thinner now and more people are attracted to me. You can't handle the fact I have a little self confidence. So you'll come back just to try and get control. Good luck with that. Cos you're a complete asswipe and I deserve far better than you.

You do deserve much better. Keep up that attitude, Mama. You all will continue to thrive without that piece of smurf. So sorry you have to go through this.

Good for you and your boys!!! You deserve better. I say get some wasp spray or pepper spray just in case he does come back & if he even thinks about raising a hand to you, spray him right in the face and call the cops.

I remember one of your other posts. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this smurf.
Us BG ladies are always going to be here to vent and talk to.

*HUGS*

Quoting Destinite:" Good for you and your boys!!! You deserve better. I say get some wasp spray or pepper spray just in case ... [snip!] ... in case he does come back & if he even thinks about raising a hand to you, spray him right in the face and call the cops."

Yepp.

Quoting Destinite:" Good for you and your boys!!! You deserve better. I say get some wasp spray or pepper spray just in case ... [snip!] ... in case he does come back & if he even thinks about raising a hand to you, spray him right in the face and call the cops."

This!

Some men can be friggin pricks.

And they always try to turn it around on you. You know better!

You go, girl!

It feels good to get it out doesn't it. I'm happy that your situation is improving and hope it will continue. Love your boys, love yourself and don't let asswipes get in your way.

You are an amazing strong Woman who does not need garbage around you or your kids.

You are an amazing strong Woman who does not need garbage around you or your kids.

You are an amazing strong Woman who does not need garbage around you or your kids.

Smurf yeah!!! You deserve a man not a douche bag little boy!! Loving this post!! Keep strong, your doing better on your own than with that boy!

glad you kicked him to the curb

Jess, you are so amazing. Strong and beautiful and loving and good. I am so sorry about what happened to you. If you want to tall I'm here. I wish I was closer so I could do more. <3

He'll get his soon enough, something will happen that will make him show his true colours to everyone. Take his ass for every last cent at court.