Quoting 3 little monsters:" This is all I can figure and feeling like he's not in control of his life since the military basically owns him. "
Quoting Ryloonjimama:" When you figure it out, let me know. lol. SO & I have similar conversations, quite a lot. Apparently ... [snip!] ... take initiative & do it first to surprise me. Men just need to have an answer for everything whether it makes sense or not."
Quoting MrsWoodstock:" talk to him about what might really be bothering him. IF this isnt normal thing for him. most guys dont ... [snip!] ... simple. if that the case talk to him and when he gets like that remind him you are NOT that other person. thats what we do"
Quoting 3 little monsters:" There's no talking to him about anything and don't even get me started on his Mommy issues. I try to ... [snip!] ... this woman has done and said. Frankly I'm surprised he and his sisters are sane (at times) from being raised by this woman. "i totally understand that. my ex had severe mom and dad issues (they were both crazy) unfortunatly those issues got the better of him, and our marriage. but sometimes you just have to call them on it. being in the military can put a ton of stress on people (or so ive heard) but if tis kind of stuff continues to happen you may have a more serious problem on your hands. the kids could start treating you that way too. ive seen it happen.