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posted 19th Feb
Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting my awesome boys:</b>" try redirecting her instead of hitting ... [snip!] ... not the best way to get your point across. And she isn't even a year old. Redirecting her at this age will be most affective."



I disagree. children do know what no means. You do have to redirect as well as saying no, or say danger.
My kids respond very well to that.

but then, not all kids are the same.  
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Edmonton, Alberta
posted 19th Feb
It is what it is. That's not why I posted this. Not many people parent with the spanking or hand smacking but that's how my bf and I were raised. It's not out if the norm for us so we are not worried. Thank you for the input though!
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I'm due July 25th, have 1 child & live in California
posted 19th Feb
i personally don't believe in hand popping a child until they are around 2 years old.. but thats just me! it's your child, your parenting. goodluck!
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I have 1 child & live in South Carolina
posted 19th Feb
Quoting jen black:" It is what it is. That's not why I posted this. Not many people parent with the spanking or hand smacking ... [snip!] ... but that's how my bf and I were raised. It's not out if the norm for us so we are not worried. Thank you for the input though!"

And people posted plenty of other options for more positive and constructive ways of disciplining and ways of dealing with her "getting into things".

That whole "that's how I was raised" thing is bullsmurf. Do some research.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due December 28th, have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 19th Feb
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" And people posted plenty of other options for more positive and constructive ways of disciplining and ... [snip!] ... and ways of dealing with her "getting into things". That whole "that's how I was raised" thing is bullsmurf. Do some research."

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Edmonton, Alberta
posted 19th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting jen black:</b>" It is what it is. That's not why I posted this. Not many people parent with the spanking or hand smacking ... [snip!] ... but that's how my bf and I were raised. It's not out if the norm for us so we are not worried. Thank you for the input though!"</blockquote>




My sons is the same age as your daughter and I was also raised like that I feel like when I smack his hands he listens its a simple smack and he know he is doing something wrong .
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I'm due May 5th (a girl), have 1 child & live in California
posted 19th Feb
There will be no researching! I am the parent I chose to be. And I'm still a damn good one. Thanks!
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I'm due July 25th, have 1 child & live in California
posted 19th Feb
Quoting my awesome boys:" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

It seriously bugs the crap out of me.

I know people who were raised by the most racist bigots you will ever meet, doesn't mean that they are racist....they explored the world, and learned that what they were taught by their parents was a load of crap.
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I'm due December 28th, have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 19th Feb
Quoting jen black:" There will be no researching! I am the parent I chose to be. And I'm still a damn good one. Thanks!"

Yeah....if you are hitting an infant, I would beg to differ.
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I'm due December 28th, have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 19th Feb
If you don't want her "getting into things" and "constantly opening drawers and pulling things out" maybe you should baby-proof your house so she can't "get into things"....then you wouldn't have to "constantly be smacking her hand." Smh, she's a baby...that's what babies do.
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I have 1 child & live in Saskatchewan
posted 19th Feb
Haha yeah totally
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I'm due July 25th, have 1 child & live in California
posted 19th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting my awesome boys:</b>" I disagree. children do know what no means. You do have to redirect as well as saying no, or say danger. My kids respond very well to that. but then, not all kids are the same.  "</blockquote>




Kids understand "no", a 10 mo th old baby on the other hand dows not.
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I'm due June 10th, have 1 child & live in Oregon
posted 19th Feb
Actually, I have nothing against spanking when done infrequently and most especially when the child is old enough to understand. It is about her age why I disagree. Because she probably just thinks its random, she don't know exploring is wrong. The way its going she won't know hitting is wrong either.
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I have 1 child & live in Bristol, Tennessee
posted 19th Feb
Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting my awesome boys:</b>" I disagree. children do know what no ... [snip!] ... not all kids are the same.  "</blockquote> Kids understand "no", a 10 mo th old baby on the other hand dows not."

My 8 month old baby understands what "no" means  
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I have 1 child & live in Saskatchewan
posted 19th Feb
Quoting Tonkette:" If you don't want her "getting into things" and "constantly opening drawers and pulling things out" maybe ... [snip!] ... "get into things"....then you wouldn't have to "constantly be smacking her hand." Smh, she's a baby...that's what babies do."
exactly!!!! get some of those locks you can put on stuff to keep her out of it. i have a 2 year old niece, gets into everythinggg and that's what we did just because it gets really annoying popping a kids hand everytime they get into something ...



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I have 1 child & live in South Carolina
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