I don't like venting on here much but..
posted 18th Feb
I have no one else to talk to.
I've been out and about with SO all day running errands and helping him fix our car. Well, I get headaches and back pain extremely easy since being pregnant so after being in the heat and standing literally like all day I am in painnnn. I already took tylenol and it didn't help. So, this ONE day, I wanted him to at least lay with me because I felt like crap but instead he was sitting on the computer next to me just chatting with like 4 people. I asked him if he's rub my back (something I never do).. of course he says no. I ask him if he could google if I can have icy hot on my back and he googled it and it pretty much just said maybe and I asked if he'd go get that and he said he would. Why would he do all that and not just lay in bed with me?? I never ask him to help with my pain. I usually just take tylenol and deal with it. Today he really made me feel like he didn't care and that those 4 people on facebook were more important than me. I just rolled over on the bed and started crying because I feel so damn unloved. I know if it was him I would drop what ever I was doing and rub his back or get him water.. whatever it may be. Idk if it's hormones or if this is something I would normally be upset over...
Please no rude comments.... or don't even comment at all. I just really needed to get this out.
quoteposted 18th Feb
Sorry that you're having a bad time. But icy hot you have to be careful. You have to make sure it's one that doesn't contain Methyl Salicylate
quoteposted 18th Feb
It's mostly hormones, you take things a lot more personal. Annnd.. most guys aren't that good at showing they care.
Don't you have a heating pad? That would be better than icy-hot.
quoteposted 18th Feb
I just don't get how he can sit there talking to 4 other people why I am lying right next to him in pain! Ughhguerghiue. I'm not going to use icy hot because of how it was more like a maybe kinda thing I found. I don't have a heating pad :[ I knew I should have gotten one today while at walmart. Grr.
quoteposted 18th Feb
Take a hot bath, turn the lights out, light a candle, and relax... Best cure for both the back ache and irritability
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