Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" For YOU. Many women have Spouses who feel similar to you, but who don't help when they come home. When ... [snip!] ... talking about. I'm a SAHM right now and honestly, I'd rather work a set amount of hours each day and know I'm done at the end."
i agree...i don't see why they shouldn't help or want to help. I was a was a sahm for a couple of months and got up every single night with her...cleaned, cared for her...i never asked him to get up in the middle of the night with her but i was so exhausted i resented him because he didn't help...i needed sleep too! now I work full time and STILL get up in the middle of the night with her.